What a CRACKING episode. Just pitch perfect the whole way through. I loved it so much I'm watching it again straight away 
I agree with everything you've all said
especially Ned's line about Laoghaire's revenge, and the pot of shit line, and this
Jamie’s look of absolute love at Claire when she brings him the water instead of whiskey
I melted into a small puddle at that point ...
God the scriptwriters are brilliant. They take the hotchpotch of the books, tease out the important bits, get rid of the dross, and somehow craft the whole thing into a wholly satisfying story that makes sense (!)
Also - we talk mostly about the characters and the actors who play them - but this episode what really struck me was how beautifully shot it is. Every scene looks absolutely magnificent. Poldark looked good, and made a lot of the Cornish landscape, but Outlander tops it and puts the finest BBC costume drama to shame. (Bigger budget I guess, but still!)
When Jamie tries to explain to Jenny where Claire was for 20 years - that she thought he was dead so she went off to the colonies - and she says that the Claire she knew would never have given up looking for him ... ah, you can't pull the wool over her eyes. She'd never tolerate the plot holes in the books 
How cute was Laoghaire's younger daughter!?
Also - am I the only one who pronounced Marsali like Marsala with an i on the end? MarSAli rather than MARsali ...