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serialtester · 14/04/2017 09:35

OPEN!

Any mention of knitting or adult colouring will not be allowed!

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ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 12/06/2017 14:27

I just spotted that! What?

I suppose it's fine to post drunk on the alcohol support threads but coming on an addiction support thread slightly high is not allowed? Confused

We do joke about drugs but we all joined the thread with the aim to cut down or kick the gear. I'm quite peeved.
We'll have to think of a very boring title next time Sad

ponzusoup · 12/06/2017 15:19

Guess it's the illegal nature which doesn't apply to alcohol?

Is there a way of asking MNHQ what exactly they objected to so we can avoid?

ponzusoup · 12/06/2017 15:19

What happens if I ask and press report?

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 12/06/2017 15:32

I'm quite annoyed. Serial relapsed after 6 months clean and confesses on here and they decide it's not appropriate for this section and delete her thread! ffs

It's worth a try Ponz. I think we had an interesting thread title and people probably clicked on it when it was in Active threads and were horrified at the content and reported us.

It just confirms what I think already; most people think drug users are scum. Sad

HoochiMama · 12/06/2017 18:34

Oh dear Confused

HoochiMama · 12/06/2017 18:41

I suppose it's one thing to say oops I went overboard but another to go into detail too much. I completely forget that these threads can be read by thousands, I just think it's us lot!

ponzusoup · 12/06/2017 18:49

Yes there was a bit of drug euphoria going on to be fair!

ponzusoup · 12/06/2017 18:49

Glad us lovely lot are on the same page tho!!

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 12/06/2017 18:49

We're too naughty it seems to have a support thread.

The thing is, a thread only gets looked at if lots of people report it so we must have had posters reading and hitting report. Not sure why but I don't think they realised this was an ongoing support thread and just took the few comments on our new thread out of context..?

I guess we're ok to continue a new support thread. Obviously we're not allowed to find any humour in addiction and must be serious at all times. Hmm
Hope lovely Serial isn't banned. That would be completely unfair.

DustyDuck · 12/06/2017 19:55

We could move to OTBT (off the beaten track, in Other ). I believe it doesn't show in active or searches - but that does mean no one new joining. We could message those who have posted here previously. It's there for precisely this kind of thing I think.

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 12/06/2017 20:03

It's a shame we have to hide though. I'd hate for someone to be looking for support in addictions and miss our lovely thread. It's helped me a lot and that's where I stumbled on it.

We could move to AIBU.. we'd be lambs to the slaughter thereGrin

DustyDuck · 12/06/2017 20:22

I know lost, me too. But also we could invite people posting in addiction threads. This happened to me on an entirely different but equally contentious subject.

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 12/06/2017 20:28

I messaged MNHQ asking if we could have some more feedback as to what they are objecting to so we can avoid this happening again. Hope we get a reply!

Obviously none of us are promoting drug abuse, it just lightens the load to joke about it sometimes. We're all battling with our addictions here and trying to help each other.
Dusty that might be an option for us.

DustyDuck · 12/06/2017 20:39

I can't remember what was in the new thread but it's on this one that serial mentions quantity and quality...

ponzusoup · 12/06/2017 21:04

I think they have to avoid things like that getting in the daily fail so I do sort of understand from that angle...

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 12/06/2017 21:15

This is all so depressing. I have my Daily Mail sad face ready Grin

I admit, we should rein in our drug references sometimes on here. It's really just making light of a serious problem,. We're not really going to Columbia. more's the pity.

ponzusoup · 12/06/2017 21:42

I think also if you only read that new thread in isolation it looked like we were saying drugs are great. Which we are. Or we wouldn't have got addicted to them. But we also know that sobriety is better in the long run, which is why we are supporting each other to achieve it.

Context is all, and was probably missing.

Hope everyone's boards are holding up. I'm on the tea tonight and will have an early night once I've had another crow at the news at ten post election headlines.

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 12/06/2017 21:50

Yes nail on head Ponz And go you (with the tea)
I'm all tucked up early in bed tonight, seas are calm here x

DustyDuck · 12/06/2017 22:24

In bed with tea too. But we should start anew somewhere before this thread fill up with tea appreciation.

ponzusoup · 13/06/2017 09:04

I've just had a massive panic that mumsnet may have some obligation to pass on our details to police if someone complains and that in my case I've outed my hiding place!!!

Please reassure me.

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 13/06/2017 09:39

I just had a quick Google and overall opinion seems to be that you have nothing to worry about Ponz.
"In the UK, police won't go through someone's messages unless they suspect this person is a dealer, or there is a high quantity of seized product" That was from the Drugs Forum; drug and addiction help website.

Police won't launch an investigation to chase a small possession charge.

.. You honestly have nothing to worry about, please don't panic. x

We'll start a new thread later. I think we've just had our knuckles rapped for getting a bit too enthusiastic Grin so will tone it down a bit moving forward. Didn't hear back yet from MNHQ but I'm sure it'll be fine.

Serial hope you're ok? This is the worst time to stop a support thread; when one of our surfers has just relapsed and might be a bit vulnerable.
Have a good day all Flowers

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 13/06/2017 10:49

Ooh, just received a message from HQ. They said of course we're fine to continue our thread in Addiction Support and no offence has been caused by our references to cocaine, or our use of humour.

They said however, we must be careful to not extol the virtues of cocaine to any readers who may be vulnerable, which I agree is a fair point. Our most recent thread did start on rather a high note! Although I must say that Serial has led by example on all our other threads and been brilliant in her help and support, so no judgement here.

I'll try to start a new thread when I'm home later unless anyone of you lovelies would like to start one? I'm useless at links! Smile

serialtester · 13/06/2017 11:47

Oh dear!!!

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serialtester · 13/06/2017 11:48

I think that it was a fair decision.

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ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 13/06/2017 12:43

Glad you're back Serial we need your wise insights on our threads and you're always entertaining. Fair decision it was Wink
Back later x