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Chic French woman or old man sandal? Help.

188 replies

Un4732 · 06/06/2025 12:09

I have been looking at these for a while - I think they look "cool French woman"/ a bit Sezane - but do they look like old man on hols?

I'm so undecided, they are quite different from my usual style, which is more feminine and heels - I completely avoided the clumpy DM/sandal thing.

I do like a swedish clog but they can be annoying to walk in.

www.laredoute.co.uk/ppdp/prod-350337296.aspx#shoppingtool=treestructureguidednavigation&searchkeyword=Women's%20Shoes,%20Boots%20&%20Trainers%20la%20redoute%20collections&shoppingtool=treestructureguidednavigation

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siucra · 06/06/2025 14:38

Now you've said old man on hols, that's exactly what they are. Please don't buy. They are neither elegant nor clompy. It has to be either/ or.

MayaPinion · 06/06/2025 14:40

I went to a convent school and to me they are very definitely nun shoes.

PragmaticIsh · 06/06/2025 14:41

The Cos ones are grim but the first you linked are good OP. The second you linked are too delicate, a bit too pretty.

IsItTheBlackOneOrTheRedOne · 06/06/2025 14:52

Gettingbysomehow · 06/06/2025 12:39

They might be in but its a big fat no from me. I wore those in primary school in summer.

God, me too! Absolutely never again.

Epli · 06/06/2025 15:09

They are all awful, sorry!

Septembiosis · 06/06/2025 15:09

I'm not a fashion-follower at all, but I like the ones OP linked better than the others. If that makes me twee, I guess I'm twee. 😅

yakkity · 06/06/2025 15:16

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 06/06/2025 14:29

I don't like the Cos or the Grensons at all. I have these, which are French and I'm half French and I look great in them [although not because they or me are French]
Paraboot Fisherman's sandals

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I too have Paraboot sandals but the Iberis. So comfy and perfect on

Chic French woman or old man sandal? Help.
Kaybee50 · 06/06/2025 15:31

I really like them. Oliver Bonas do some lovely ones too.

whattodoes · 06/06/2025 15:43

I've always had a pair of these sandals, sometimes you want no socks but toe coverage!

whattodoes · 06/06/2025 15:44

I wear ones more similar to @MissPrismsMistake links

wwyd2021medicine · 06/06/2025 16:04

I'd love a pair of fisherman's sandals but the ones I have actually seen in Anthropologie and OB and other places have plastic soles and I only want a rubbery sole

Viviennemary · 06/06/2025 16:05

I think they are quite nice. I'm surprised. Thought they would be awful.

Musclewoman · 06/06/2025 16:33

Personally I don't like them at all....grannyish.

Schweden · 06/06/2025 16:36

They are all awful. They conjure up a mental picture of my husband's nan who dressed like Nora Batty and wore this type of sandal.

TheBadLuckOfTeelaBrown · 06/06/2025 16:48

These all scream old man. Or old German man with socks on (I love old German men with socks on just FYI).

Iheartmysmart · 06/06/2025 16:48

I love the Elodie sandals linked to above but annoying the 36 was too small and the 37 too big so they had to go back. Then I bought a pair of these and I love them, very heavy though!
https://www.drmartens.com/uk/en_gb/wrenlie-leather-fisherman-sandals-dark-brown/p/31524201

MidnightMeltdown · 06/06/2025 16:49

I like them. They are very on trend at the moment.

Sahara123 · 06/06/2025 16:51

SunnieShine · 06/06/2025 12:56

Dies anyone else remember how massively popular these were in the late '70s/early '80s?

Yes ! My maths teacher at school in the 70’s used to wear them, I have a memory that somehow one of her toes used to stick out of the side🤣. She was quite strange too…
Safe to say that’s one fashion item I won’t be bothering with. It may be a bit dated now but I still love the white trainers and lovely dress thing. Comfy too !

Waterbaby41 · 06/06/2025 17:12

Sorry, not for me. Definitely 'old man on hols' - all of them!

whattodoes · 06/06/2025 17:20

I only see European old men wearing the male versions of these and they tend to be chic.

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 06/06/2025 17:24

yakkity · 06/06/2025 15:16

I too have Paraboot sandals but the Iberis. So comfy and perfect on

They're lovely.