Aibu upset sil wore at our wedding

[Monkeynuts57]

We recently got married and we have just got our photos back and I felt upset and annoyed at what sil wore to our wedding and I thought it was odd but prepared to be told if I Abu , even though personally it’s not what I would choose for a wedding. it was cream basically same colour as my dress I feel upset and all photos will remind me of this.
I have attached a link of similar but not exactly the same outfit

https://m-uk.cupshe.com/products/romance-bow-one-shoulder-jumpsuit?gbraid=0AAAAABWndwb4E-ZBgd2rr4zFLwKsJ97QT&gclid=Cj0KCQjwmZejBhC_ARIsAGhCqncAdTT5MhokrQRyxiDNKHE2JbioCsaJs0hz4MFqyO60mag9C0evdEQaAqUEEALw_wcB&utm_campaign=UK-PMAX-Jumpsuits-20220921&utm_medium=cpc&utm_source=google&utm_term=%7B17157404823%7D_%7B%7D&variant=42306334949567

YABU. It's just a nice jumpsuit 🤷‍♀️ Hardly bridal.

I never understand the upset at people wearing white or cream at weddings. Everyone knows you were the bride, not her, why let it spoil your memories of a lovely day?

Unless you just don't like her, and would have found something else to be upset about.

I'd be upset too, it's a strange colour to wear as a guest to a wedding

She's a dick. No guest should be wearing white or cream or super pale anything that could look white in pics

I really like it. YABU.

You wore a jumpsuit to your own wedding?

It’s just a jumpsuit? Wouldn’t bother me, since when did Vera Wang start doing bridal jumpsuits?

It’s a jumpsuit.

you are being ridiculous.

your self-esteem is the issue of you think someone in a jump suit upstaged you in a wedding dress.

You're being over-sensitive. It's just a jumpsuit and obviously you were the bride, not her. I'm assuming you don't like her much. Ask yourself how you'd feel if your best friend had worn it? Or your mum or own sister?

What’s the issue, do you think people confused her with the bride?

Yabu to let this ruin your memories

I think it's just a nice jumpsuit. Not at all like a wedding dress.

No one thought she was the bride OP...

It's a jumpsuit not a wedding dress. Get over yourself.

I don't understand people who wear white or cream to a weddimg when there is every single other colour available.

I get it OP. The unwritten rule is don't wear white at a wedding. Whether you agree with it or not? Everyone knows that's just something you don't do. Why would anyone ever risk it?
I think of someone had turned up to my wedding in white literally everyone would've thought... "what a d*ck!"

She’s rude. Everyone knows it’s a no no.

Yabu to let it spoil your happy memories, no one thought she was the bride. It's very immature all this rubbish about who wears what at a wedding. Everyone knows who the bride and groom are, it's not like there will be a mix up. Get a grip and enjoy your photos.

It’s a jump suit, and it’s cream, you would be in white? It’s your choice not to be, but unless you tell people you are in cream, they will assume white

and it’s not a bridal dress. I think you just need to get over it and move on

This. She knew exactly what she was doing

I think it completely lacks class to wear white/ivory/cream to wedding

but I wouldn't let it bother me.

A friend wore white to my wedding. It was a short dress and she was so obviously not the bride I didn't bat an eyelid.

Unless you wore a cream jumpsuit or trouser suit I can't see how it's an issue. Do you get on with sil or is there a deeper issue here?

The main rule for wedding guests are to not wear white. Yes it's a jumpsuit hut I've been to 2 weddings where the bride wore a jumpsuit and not a dress! I'd be super annoyed

Looks nice. Are you worried people kept thinking she was the jumpsuit wearing bride?

Get over it. I can’t imagine being this precious.

Agree

She must have looked like the bride - so much so it would definitely taint your whole wedding 🙄

Come on now. It's an outfit and as far from a wedding dress, in design, as you can go.

YABU.

Yanbu.