Aibu upset sil wore at our wedding

[Monkeynuts57]

We recently got married and we have just got our photos back and I felt upset and annoyed at what sil wore to our wedding and I thought it was odd but prepared to be told if I Abu , even though personally it’s not what I would choose for a wedding. it was cream basically same colour as my dress I feel upset and all photos will remind me of this.
I have attached a link of similar but not exactly the same outfit

https://m-uk.cupshe.com/products/romance-bow-one-shoulder-jumpsuit?gbraid=0AAAAABWndwb4E-ZBgd2rr4zFLwKsJ97QT&gclid=Cj0KCQjwmZejBhC_ARIsAGhCqncAdTT5MhokrQRyxiDNKHE2JbioCsaJs0hz4MFqyO60mag9C0evdEQaAqUEEALw_wcB&utm_campaign=UK-PMAX-Jumpsuits-20220921&utm_medium=cpc&utm_source=google&utm_term=%7B17157404823%7D_%7B%7D&variant=42306334949567

The Royals have bridesmaids/MOH in white/cream/ivory. Why is that ok but not guests?
I agree the jumpsuit is bridal but I think I'd rather that than some of the things guests wore to my wedding. Tracksuit bottoms anyone? ExH's cousins. A floral curtain-esque dress? That was my sister at my brother's wedding and her own daughters wedding. Ugg boots and shorts?

If it helps OP, it looks like the sort of thing Linda Bloggs from Margate would squeeze into when she's marrying the waiter from the all-inclusive in Benidorm. It's hideous.

The Royals have bridesmaids/MOH in white/cream/ivory. Why is that ok but not guests?

Because bridesmaids/MOH are part of the wedding party so have had their outfits chosen by the bride.

Brides don’t get to choose what guests wear, so it’s nice for guests to be considerate.

I can't see a problem OP. It's pale but not bridal-looking. If I were you I wouldn't let this spoil your memories of your wedding day.

"That it unbalances the photographs is the best practical argument I’ve heard, but you shouldn’t really need one. Whatever the origin of the thing, it’s just rude."

No, I don't like this argument because you could make it about any colour really and the guests' job is not to colour coordinate. It reminds me of people who have themed weddings and expect everyone to buy something new in a colour they wouldn't otherwise choose.

What a nasty comment.

This. Not nice.

Here's a wedding dress on which to feast your eyes! I doubt any guests would try to copy:

https://metro.co.uk/2023/05/22/coronation-street-spoilers-gemma-and-chesneys-wedding-drama-revealed-18752320/