Mother of the groom- can I wear this???

[Kenworthington]

Before you all say don’t be ridiculous, you’ll look like the bride- there is no bride- it’s a gay wedding. I love this. lOVE it. Could get the floral one but of COURSE I want the cream one. Can I???????

www.needleandthread.com/products/genevieve-ruffle-gown-champagne

Just pointing out, the Vivienne Westward 'cartie boucher' is sold out in all sizes before you get too excited!

The red one is stunning

Westwood.

Sorry, that was about the first two dresses. I liked quite a few of the bombshell dresses though, quirky but not too “look at me, no don’t look at the bride, look at ME”

@user1493494961

They're awful, (both of them). I wouldn't pay £4.50 for them let alone £450.

Sorry, this. Also, what height shape and age are you OP ? You don't have say but we might be able to come up with something.

Ok I’m going to have another look at the Viv one. I’ll send him that one too….

How about this?

Please wear the Westwood- send it to your son and ask him!

Bride? I meant groom!

Sold out? NOOOoOOOO

Hold up a sign 'look folks you thought there was no bride. Surprise surprise there is. And its meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. Ridiculous.

No, you'll look like you are trying to make a statement about the lack of bride. If you go with a colour you will look like a bridesmaid.

there isn’t a bride
Exactly.

Much, much better to throw a huge party for your next big birthday and wear it at that when it will be you who is the centre of attention.

Are they having a wedding around Easter because you’re describing my best friend and his fiancé!

It's too confusing - you'd look like you were trying to be the bride even though there isn't one so you'd be marrying your son?

Hmmmm no weirdly I don’t like that @DiscoBadgers

Or this?

You’ll also be-able to wear the Westwood dress again and again. (with a leather jacket for informal).

@Krapom

No - especially not in the floral or champagne. I’d be worried that anything too bridal might be mistaken as a comment about the lack of a bride.

Yes this occurred to me. I know YOU aren’t making such a statement but you know people and how basic they are…it’ll be ‘Do you think she’s trying to create a bride? How odd.’ etc.

If it’s off the wall you like, the Vivienne Westwood will suffice nicely. By your self description I’m going to say it’s very you. It will be a talking point of an entirely different tone. Awe I should think.

I’m 46, can’t remember who asked. I have a good waist, kind of a bit hourglass I guess? But not too much boob going on. Her really prefer to not wear a bra if I can avoid it

I do think the ruffled ones look like 50s honeymoon nighties but I think you can wear what you want and you will feel beautiful and look beautiful 😘

@LizzieSiddal

You’ll also be-able to wear the Westwood dress again and again. (with a leather jacket for informal).

Yep. This too.

And wear a bra.

It’s too extravagant for MOG. No matter how flamboyant they might be, you should be more conservative.

www.monsoon.co.uk/marcia-embroidered-midi-dress-black-24291301.html Monsoon have gotten a lot cooler lately (or I’ve just gotten older )