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is this too slutty?

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Mummyoftwo91 · 18/05/2016 09:24

Life is shit, husband just left, got a girls night out Saturday to drink my sorrows away, is this outfit too much? I'm thinking along the lines of look what your missing you bastard but I don't want to look like I'm for hire either!

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mrsclooneytoyou · 20/05/2016 20:44

You have a lovely figure op but I think it's a bit to tacky. What does it look like back to front? Showing of your back (according to my dd1) is very on trend and sexy but classy .

bigbuttons · 20/05/2016 20:48

I have no boobs,, bloody hell does that mean I can actually wear something like that low cut top? Hooray. I think I might be too old thoughHmm

bigbuttons · 20/05/2016 20:50

sorry, to answer your question. I think that look is tacky and 'slutty', cheap-looking. However, wear what you want, I say.

RickOShay · 20/05/2016 23:08

No such thing
Wear what makes you feel good

Coconutty · 20/05/2016 23:14

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ExpandingRoundTheMiddle · 20/05/2016 23:39

Dear god yes it is but if it makes you happy then wear it.

hairymuffet · 20/05/2016 23:50

Either wear it back to front or stitch it up fgs

RainIsAGoodThing · 21/05/2016 00:37

OP, get a super plunge bra. Pic attached (hopefully). I got mine from Debenhams, it's a lifesaver with tricky necklines.

is this too slutty?
Salene · 21/05/2016 06:37

Agree with the above bra it's awesome and makes you look like you have amazing fake boobs, I love mine

Believeitornot · 21/05/2016 07:34

I wouldn't wear that outfit because if you're thinking it then others will too!

MadSprocker · 21/05/2016 09:00

Op, you are 25, I think you look great. It wouldn't look great on me, because I am 15 years older than you. Have a fab night.

thisproofseverything · 21/05/2016 14:47

You look lovely but that dress (in my opinion) is hideous. It looks like a cardigan with nothing underneath.

That said, I'm ten years older and like to bare my shoulders rather than my cleavage. It's just a matter of personal taste.

If you like it, wear it.

Fluffycloudland77 · 21/05/2016 16:58

I'm just astonished he left, ow must be a supermodel.

Have a great night.

Goingtobeawesome · 21/05/2016 17:02

Hmm.

Longsufferingmum2 · 22/05/2016 06:43

No bra, long hair down, minimal jewelry, minimal make up - look elegant and sexy but ultimately, out of every man's league, so you get attention to make yourself feel better but you don't end up snogging some awful bloke. Don't get massively drunk and have a great time! Oh, and black tights and black heels.

Mummyoftwo91 · 23/05/2016 14:45

Wore it with the lace bra and felt fab, had a good night out! thanks everyone!

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squizita · 23/05/2016 14:57

Grin Glad you had a great night!

B1ug1f · 07/06/2019 13:33

I know it is long after the event but here is a blokes perspective. Yes its a bit daring. So what wear what you like. There will be some blokes who think you look easy and some who think you are confident.some blokes will stare or try it on. Men are visual.but not all blokes are tossers.
Hope you had a good night

dontgobaconmyheart · 07/06/2019 13:49

So much about this thread is unpleasant. 'Slutty' is a pretty abhorrent concept, and word. People telling the OP that her husband was mad to leave because her figure is decent basically- as though that's he primary perk of a woman.

OP wear whatever you want, always. As a general rule- but don't degrade yourself by doing to show a man 'what he is missing' - just do it for you because you feel good in your outfit and are having a good night out with your mates. I'm sure you have a host of things to recommend you that aren't your boobs. Keeping him in mind when you dress isn't doing credence to how great you are whether he thinks so or not.

ChuggaChuggaChoooChooo · 07/06/2019 14:20

A man revives a 3 year old thread to give his opinion 😂🙄

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