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is this too slutty?

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Mummyoftwo91 · 18/05/2016 09:24

Life is shit, husband just left, got a girls night out Saturday to drink my sorrows away, is this outfit too much? I'm thinking along the lines of look what your missing you bastard but I don't want to look like I'm for hire either!

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MrsCampbellBlack · 18/05/2016 09:38

What Amber said.

And hope you feel better soon mummyoftwo.

pictish · 18/05/2016 09:39

I think you should wear whatever you want. I personally would not choose to wear such an attention seeking item. I'm not comfortable having all on show though. If you are, then fine. To each their own.

Mummyoftwo91 · 18/05/2016 09:40

What about this underneath?

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Paulat2112 · 18/05/2016 09:42

I don't think it looks right at all. I think you could find soooo many nicer dresses to wear that don't look as desperate or showy

pictish · 18/05/2016 09:42

I dunno - looks the same as the bra in your first pic.

everythingsgoingsouth · 18/05/2016 09:42

picture-cdn.wheretoget.it/493wkv-l.jpg

looks better without the bra.

MiddleClassProblem · 18/05/2016 09:43

Something like this

www.selectfashion.co.uk/clothing/scon-1403-025_black.html/5051706713515/?gclid=CPuTzKqd48wCFRBmGwoddWcImw

You don't want to make it look like you are trying to look sexy

Mummyoftwo91 · 18/05/2016 09:43

If I had boobs like her I would not wear a bra, mine are a tad lack lustre bra less after 2 babies!

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Mummyoftwo91 · 18/05/2016 09:44

Seen similar ones in h and m I'll go try one on

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LizzieMacQueen · 18/05/2016 09:46

I've lost over a stone in 2 weeks

I think you need to slow down. You need to deal with your husband leaving I get that, but not in this manner. Do you have good friends to support you?

pictish · 18/05/2016 09:46

Honestly...far be it for me to question your taste...but that dress with the bra hanging out on show....to me it looks quite aggressively desperate for attention. Sorry OP...I don't like to say that to you, but I fear you would look back on it and cringe at yourself.

ExasperatedAlmostAlways · 18/05/2016 09:48

It would be better without the bra.

MiddleClassProblem · 18/05/2016 09:48

You can wear strapless under a top like that or just tuck the straps in. You might want tape too just to stop it moving if you're dancing

Mummyoftwo91 · 18/05/2016 09:48

I have taken another picture with my hair down and pinned the dress to the bra, better? Think I will buy a bandeau style top for underneath anyway

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MiddleClassProblem · 18/05/2016 09:49

Op has said braless is not an option

Mummyoftwo91 · 18/05/2016 09:49

Got lots of support, I'm trying the best I can right now

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Salene · 18/05/2016 09:49

Those tops only work with very flat chested girls and no bra.

This isn't a good look

Pop a top under it

MiddleClassProblem · 18/05/2016 09:50

It's a little better but still a bit like (to quote Phoebe) "This is my bra" and prob won't stay in place

DerelictMyBalls · 18/05/2016 09:50

I don't think it looks good with your bra showing.

You look totally hot, though.

Mummyoftwo91 · 18/05/2016 09:50

Okay done I shall buy a top for underneath

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Arfarfanarf · 18/05/2016 09:53

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pictish · 18/05/2016 09:53

Ha ha I thought of Phoebe trying to seduce Chandler to rat him and Monica out as well!
So here's my bra.

Salene · 18/05/2016 09:55

I just seenu say you don't have large boobs in that case you can pull it off, no bra and

Lots of tit tape and it will look fab 👍🏻👍🏻

Try it at least.

polyhymnia · 18/05/2016 09:55

It looks desperate and tacky - I guess not the look you're aiming for. Not sure why you're so set on wearing it. The second pic isn't a huge improvement.

I too absolutely agree with what Amber said. This is a time you want to look as if you've got high self respect and esteem - which doesn't have to mean boring. With your figure, you must have a very wide choice of gorgeous outfits.

eddielizzard · 18/05/2016 09:56

yes, buy a top. looks like you forgot to put one on otherwise.

you're a stunner. your ex-dh is an idiot.

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