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DLA WAIT TIMES THREAD 48

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OneGreenBird · 30/06/2024 14:40

Time for a new thread ready for another week of waiting.
Hopefully lots of us get the results we're so desperately awaiting 🤞🏻❤

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Crazyhouse4 · 01/07/2024 13:39

Smi77 · 01/07/2024 09:07

Hello everyone just an update, called dla at 9am as recieved the award text on Saturday. The woman was lovely my sons scan date was 7/3 she said a decision was made on the 29th June he got mrc and lrm until 2027

Congratulations

TheSnappyTurtle · 01/07/2024 13:41

MR for TC severely disabled child tax credit back pay declined (Same as child disabled element of UC just different title under TC)

Theyre standing by the excuse i didnt inform them within 30 days of the award. I had just been made to migrate over but did everything right with UC and fought them for months because I didnt know i had to make a change of circumstance to a closed claim 😩

i dont have the fight for tribunal. My original DLA scan date is 28/04/2023. Im ending that journey here so i have some peace before renewal in a few months.

I just hope anyone on the thread can learn from mine and please inform both UC and TC when you get your award if youve migrated during the wait times.

good luck everyone waiting. Great to see some awards this morning ❤️

MR for my oldest 13/06 🕰️

MVhx · 01/07/2024 13:54

Hi all
spoke to someone regarding my eldest sons award (LRC no mobility) ADHD. I said can I do a MR she said no need just sent additional evidence - if it’s within 2 weeks of decision the DM will look into it and make any changes to award accordingly!
still waiting for youngest 13-03

Garfield456 · 01/07/2024 13:55

Congrats on awards 😊

SendProsecco · 01/07/2024 16:05

Mini update , I called to make sure they got the new/extra evidence ( they have ) and was also informed that atm MR from late May to early June won’t see a DM until end of August to mid September unless something is confirmed to be a high priority ( my mr was 7th June ) … think it’s his way to basically tell me don’t bother to pester until end of Aug for updates lol 😂… sorry but im called every 3-4 weeks lol

PollyH3 · 01/07/2024 16:34

Waited all day, just called and got "it's with a decision maker". It's been with a decision maker for weeks and was put as priority a week ago on Friday. I keep being told a decision is imminent.
Anyone else feel like they just tell you what they think you want to hear just to get rid of you?
Having a really stressful and exhausting few days with extra meltdowns off all 3 of my SEN children, and this wait is just adding to me feeling stressed and deflated.

mummyto3littlebeautys · 01/07/2024 16:46

@Aussielover lets hope it’s the outcome we both want to hear!! Good luck hun x

Vic747 · 01/07/2024 16:49

Sd 2/4 I broke today and called, I know I'm living in dream land but I just wanted to hear it from them. No decision yet and I wil get a letter by 20 weeks 🤦‍♀️

MVhx · 01/07/2024 16:54

PollyH3 · 01/07/2024 16:34

Waited all day, just called and got "it's with a decision maker". It's been with a decision maker for weeks and was put as priority a week ago on Friday. I keep being told a decision is imminent.
Anyone else feel like they just tell you what they think you want to hear just to get rid of you?
Having a really stressful and exhausting few days with extra meltdowns off all 3 of my SEN children, and this wait is just adding to me feeling stressed and deflated.

It’s awful hun I’m in the same position been with DM since 21/06 😭 we’re nearly there!! Good luck xx p

PollyH3 · 01/07/2024 17:01

MVhx · 01/07/2024 16:54

It’s awful hun I’m in the same position been with DM since 21/06 😭 we’re nearly there!! Good luck xx p

They have no idea how much it adds to our stress load do they.
Praying for good outcomes this week 🤞x

Shazzle88 · 01/07/2024 17:04

PollyH3 · 01/07/2024 16:34

Waited all day, just called and got "it's with a decision maker". It's been with a decision maker for weeks and was put as priority a week ago on Friday. I keep being told a decision is imminent.
Anyone else feel like they just tell you what they think you want to hear just to get rid of you?
Having a really stressful and exhausting few days with extra meltdowns off all 3 of my SEN children, and this wait is just adding to me feeling stressed and deflated.

I no exactly how you feel hun, its mentally and physically exhausting xx

PollyH3 · 01/07/2024 17:16

Shazzle88 · 01/07/2024 17:04

I no exactly how you feel hun, its mentally and physically exhausting xx

It really is. I feel broken today.
Have you heard anything? Xx

Billie87 · 01/07/2024 17:45

Joining for another thread! Sd 16/4. The wait is soo stressful

Billie87 · 01/07/2024 17:46

Vic747 · 01/07/2024 16:49

Sd 2/4 I broke today and called, I know I'm living in dream land but I just wanted to hear it from them. No decision yet and I wil get a letter by 20 weeks 🤦‍♀️

20 weeks Sad we've got a long way to go then!

Vic747 · 01/07/2024 17:50

Billie87 · 01/07/2024 17:46

20 weeks Sad we've got a long way to go then!

My youngest already gets dla and his letters always come a couple of weeks after the decision so I'm hoping it will mean a decision at 17-18 weeks. Still a ways to go tho

MVhx · 01/07/2024 17:54

PollyH3 · 01/07/2024 17:01

They have no idea how much it adds to our stress load do they.
Praying for good outcomes this week 🤞x

I know it’s so true. We’re on the edge enough with our little ones! I’m sure it’ll be this week. We got to stay hopeful xx

Shazzle88 · 01/07/2024 18:00

PollyH3 · 01/07/2024 17:16

It really is. I feel broken today.
Have you heard anything? Xx

Not yet hun ive heard nothing. Im the same hun ive had to call and book an emergency appointment with the pediatrician her melt downs are rapidly getting worse. I cant watch her punch herself in the face anymore xx

Brittany95 · 01/07/2024 18:38

Vic747 · 01/07/2024 16:49

Sd 2/4 I broke today and called, I know I'm living in dream land but I just wanted to hear it from them. No decision yet and I wil get a letter by 20 weeks 🤦‍♀️

My sd is also 2/04 too. Ive not called at all yet to ask for any updates or time scale as too scared/nervous haha. Im such an overthinker that i think iff i call to ask that ill be declined 🤦🏻‍♀️
hopefully we havent got much longer to wait. Fingers are crossed for us both🤞🏻

Vic747 · 01/07/2024 18:40

Brittany95 · 01/07/2024 18:38

My sd is also 2/04 too. Ive not called at all yet to ask for any updates or time scale as too scared/nervous haha. Im such an overthinker that i think iff i call to ask that ill be declined 🤦🏻‍♀️
hopefully we havent got much longer to wait. Fingers are crossed for us both🤞🏻

I promised myself I'd wait until 15 weeks but I'm the same I sat driving myself mad this afternoon and gave in. My stomach was in knots while she was looking I'm not ringing again, I've waited this long I can wait a few more weeks

CyanFawn · 01/07/2024 18:55

They literally tell you anything to get you off the phone, I wouldn't be calling everyday it's enough to drive you mad. I'm 13 weeks tomorrow since scan date and have called once to ensure extra evidence was scanned on, sent over more today so will probably call end of the week/next to see if that's arrived and scanned on. When I called last time I was told update was 20 weeks, but could be 15 but could also be before that. I don't think they have any type of way or order they look at them and it's just a ot gets done when it gets done even with priorities as seen some still have to wait 2/3 weeks 🤔

Asdmamalou · 01/07/2024 19:45

SD 05/03

What number are you guys using to call for updates? I’ve only used the one on letters (0800 121 4600) but I think I saw on here before that there’s another number and I’m hoping I might get a bit more info if I try a different route as last week they told me we were with a DM and should hear within the week but then when I called today they said they can’t confirm if it’s with one or not and just kept repeating that the case is ‘open’. I’m so stressed with everything going on anyway and fed up of them all saying different things every time I call! The lady today even called the operator I spoke to last week a liar!! Not exactly professional is it.

good luck to everyone and I hope you all get good news soon 💕

Rainnydays70 · 01/07/2024 20:06

SD 18/3
Getting anxious 😟
I'm calling trw for the 1st time for an update🤞

PollyH3 · 01/07/2024 20:41

Asdmamalou · 01/07/2024 19:45

SD 05/03

What number are you guys using to call for updates? I’ve only used the one on letters (0800 121 4600) but I think I saw on here before that there’s another number and I’m hoping I might get a bit more info if I try a different route as last week they told me we were with a DM and should hear within the week but then when I called today they said they can’t confirm if it’s with one or not and just kept repeating that the case is ‘open’. I’m so stressed with everything going on anyway and fed up of them all saying different things every time I call! The lady today even called the operator I spoke to last week a liar!! Not exactly professional is it.

good luck to everyone and I hope you all get good news soon 💕

That's the right number. Then options 1-5-2-3
Different operators will give you different details. I've had some that gave me no details and others that seem really helpful.

Emz112 · 01/07/2024 22:23

Parking
11.04

babybellx · 01/07/2024 22:48

Lexie365 · 01/07/2024 06:53

Parking- scan date 11/03

scan date buddy🥰