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Concerns about racism

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PandoraSocks · 05/08/2025 08:33

Hi there Mumsnet HQ

Many of us are concerned about the uptick of hatred, xenophobia and racism on the site over the past couple of weeks. Most of the bigotry is focused on asylum seekers. MNHQ will of course delete racism etc. if reported, but this has gone way beyond a few hateful posts.

Links below to three examples of threads which have descended into real nastiness.

Cheers.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/in_the_news/5385273-civil-unrest-whats-really-going-on?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5385914-do-you-believe-there-will-be-a-civil-war?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5386073-to-be-so-fed-up-amd-disheartened-with-all-the-xenophobia?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share

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Zonder · 07/08/2025 08:54

JamesMacGill · 07/08/2025 08:49

Why are you presuming they’re not? Just because they’re Muslim or brown, doesn’t mean they’re not British. Her post is incredibly odd and bit cringe. We’re discussing illegal immigration, which is a separate matter.

I'm not assuming they're British because of the comment from the PP, not because they might be Muslim or brown. Stop trying to make out we are all stupid.

Quite funny for you of all people to point out what we are discussing here 😂

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 07/08/2025 08:54

ByMerryDeer · 07/08/2025 08:52

The tone of your post suggesting I can’t read, could be ‘part of the problem’ , misquoting ‘As for engaging with people who are openly racist’ and suggesting I find another thread does strongly suggest you would prefer to shut down rather than engage with people who don’t follow your particular world view. I’d politely suggest this may be more to do with your world view not reflecting reality, rather a problem with any online platform and the mainstream views of people in the U.K.

This is a thread to try and discuss what can be done about racism on MN, it's not yet another "but but immigrants!" one. So why try and make it one? Surely there's other threads for that you could join.

ByMerryDeer · 07/08/2025 08:54

MiloMinderbinder925 · 07/08/2025 08:51

Why don't you believe that racism and inflammatory rhetoric should be censored?

Why don't you believe that racism and inflammatory rhetoric should be censored?

Would misquoting for straw man arguments be considered inflammatory rhetoric?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 07/08/2025 08:55

ByMerryDeer · 07/08/2025 08:54

Why don't you believe that racism and inflammatory rhetoric should be censored?

Would misquoting for straw man arguments be considered inflammatory rhetoric?

It's a simple question.

Piggywaspushed · 07/08/2025 08:55

JamesMacGill · 07/08/2025 08:06

Please don’t call it that. The correct term is child sexual abuse images. Children cannot consent to being in ‘porn’, and it makes it sound like light hearted entertainment.

Wow, we have found one thing I can endorse you saying.

ByMerryDeer · 07/08/2025 08:57

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 07/08/2025 08:54

This is a thread to try and discuss what can be done about racism on MN, it's not yet another "but but immigrants!" one. So why try and make it one? Surely there's other threads for that you could join.

it's not yet another "but but immigrants!" one.

Again , misquoting for straw man arguments and insinuations do suggest you’d like to shut down anything you don’t agree with,

Zonder · 07/08/2025 08:57

ByMerryDeer · 07/08/2025 08:34

This thread seems to have been set up and supported by a small group of people who have decided their world view is correct and shouldn’t be challenged by wrong think. I don’t think echo chambers are ever good, but you can just set up a private group which you can do on lots of platforms. I do think it’s a shame not to engage with people on public forums rather than come up with strategies to have them censored.

What a load of rubbish. It was set up by one person concerned about racism and dis or misinformation standing on MN and unsurprisingly a lot of people agree with them.

JamesMacGill · 07/08/2025 08:58

Piggywaspushed · 07/08/2025 08:55

Wow, we have found one thing I can endorse you saying.

Why is that a surprise? Can people not disagree on one thing and agree on another? I find that a lot less shocking than you clearly do.

But yes - it really irks me when people say CP

ByMerryDeer · 07/08/2025 09:00

MiloMinderbinder925 · 07/08/2025 08:55

It's a simple question.

No it’s not a simple question, it implies I said that in the post she quoted in order not to engage with my actual post.

MurdoMunro · 07/08/2025 09:02

I agree. And I will learn from the reprimand. My word choice was inappropriate and offensive so will moderate my language.

Piggywaspushed · 07/08/2025 09:02

JamesMacGill · 07/08/2025 08:05

It isn’t ‘hate’ to think our country is desperately overcrowded or that the 40,000 people on the terrorism watch list makes letting in thousands of unvetted men from terrorist states a bad idea.

You can argue the above, but dismissing it as ‘hate’ is nonsense.

Do you really genuinely believe that if we only allowed in women and children from these high risk countries the likes of Tommy Robinson and the Reform Party would be fine about it? That these women would experience no racial abuse? Let alone these women existing outside of their family support networks it seems fanciful that the only issue that people have against immigrants is gender.

These exact same sexual predator tropes existed about black men right up until the 90s .

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 07/08/2025 09:04

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FreezeDriedStrawberries · 07/08/2025 09:07

why don't you join in the discussion and tell us what you think MNHQ should do about racism and misinformation on the site. I'm really interested to hear your thoughts

Same

pointythings · 07/08/2025 09:07

JamesMacGill · 06/08/2025 19:30

Do you believe Jewish people have the right to a homeland, particularly after their treatment in WW2, in order to have the same rights as every other mainstream religion?

Yes.

BIossomtoes · 07/08/2025 09:09

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 07/08/2025 09:07

why don't you join in the discussion and tell us what you think MNHQ should do about racism and misinformation on the site. I'm really interested to hear your thoughts

Same

And me.

JamesMacGill · 07/08/2025 09:15

Piggywaspushed · 07/08/2025 09:02

Do you really genuinely believe that if we only allowed in women and children from these high risk countries the likes of Tommy Robinson and the Reform Party would be fine about it? That these women would experience no racial abuse? Let alone these women existing outside of their family support networks it seems fanciful that the only issue that people have against immigrants is gender.

These exact same sexual predator tropes existed about black men right up until the 90s .

No they wouldn’t be but I don’t care what TR or Reform think.

ByMerryDeer · 07/08/2025 09:16

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Again. Insinuations and straw man set up arguments coupled with unnecessary aggressive tone. It’s very transparent, if your world view is so fragile that you feel the need to censor any counter view then I’d suggest reevaluating your world view

ByMerryDeer · 07/08/2025 09:16

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Again. Insinuations and straw man set up arguments coupled with unnecessary aggressive tone. It’s very transparent, if your world view is so fragile that you feel the need to censor any counter view then I’d suggest reevaluating your world view

Notonthestairs · 07/08/2025 09:18

Racism isnt a 'counter view'. Its racism. That's what the thread is about.

Brendahollowayreconsider · 07/08/2025 09:19

JamesMacGill · 07/08/2025 09:15

No they wouldn’t be but I don’t care what TR or Reform think.

But unfortunately they are the prime reason for twisting situations to suit their agenda and thus inciting hatred.
The extreme right/far right have been doing this for decades it's nothing new just that they're able to reach a wider audience.

Inchworms · 07/08/2025 09:22

I really don’t get why anyone would come on this thread and be ‘god it’s so unfair that you people are talking about how racism is bad’. I think we can agree that there are disagreements about what constitutes racism, but even so, this thread is no threat to even hardcore racists so… what’s the point

MurdoMunro · 07/08/2025 09:23

There’s saying ‘cancel’ this discussion and then there’s ways of making it happen without having to say it.

PandoraSocks · 07/08/2025 09:24

JamesMacGill · 07/08/2025 08:05

It isn’t ‘hate’ to think our country is desperately overcrowded or that the 40,000 people on the terrorism watch list makes letting in thousands of unvetted men from terrorist states a bad idea.

You can argue the above, but dismissing it as ‘hate’ is nonsense.

I don't normally engage with you. But you gave yourself away with one particular post post.

Now I am back to not engage mode.

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Notonthestairs · 07/08/2025 09:25

Nobody has said 'cancel this discussion'. They've asked how MN is set up to moderate racist posts and whether it could be improved.

Inchworms · 07/08/2025 09:26

‘Desperately overcrowded’ is very dramatic language for ‘less populous than the Netherlands’.

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