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What actually are your plans to deal with disablism on MN?

823 replies

JustAnothersilentorangenugget · 08/07/2017 16:20

You remember you were going to impliment all kinds of things, Message which explained posts were deleted due to disablism, Emails to the posters, proactive buzzwords...

a year on what has been the result of this massive change in moderation?

Now i'm not suggesting this was a carrot, dangled to try and stop people leaving....
But we donkeys ARE getting a little tired of walking and woudl like to know what plans are there for the future to stop attacks.

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BeyondDrinksAndKnowsThings · 12/07/2017 18:05

Cause it's during the week at the mo....

BishopBrennansArse · 12/07/2017 18:12

Wait til the weekend it'll be trollfest again

BeyondDrinksAndKnowsThings · 12/07/2017 18:17

Changing the subject, I ordered my new free car earlier. :)
Only costing me £1000+ (the Beyond household is on bread and water for the next few weeks!)

professorvanvonsteinenburg · 12/07/2017 18:23

congratulations

Dawndonnaagain · 12/07/2017 19:01

Ooo, what did you get Beyond?

BeyondDrinksAndKnowsThings · 12/07/2017 19:13

Automatic Ford Kuga Titanium (diesel) in black (obv Grin ).
It's so tall! My wheelchair fits in the boot standing up!! Shock

BishopBrennansArse · 12/07/2017 19:15

I got my new 'free' car just over a week ago. Got vandalised 2 days later.

BeyondDrinksAndKnowsThings · 12/07/2017 19:17

That's awful :( absolute wankers
Do you know who did it?

My existing one has a scratch up the side that could possibly have been keyed, but that's the only problem I've had with it so far

Polter · 12/07/2017 19:22

Bloody hell Bish SadAngry Is that one of the hate crimes the police aren't taking seriously?

Enjoy your new car Beyond, I suppose if I was a TrollyMcTwatFace I'd be jealous or something.

Dawndonnaagain · 12/07/2017 19:24

Always fancied a Kuga, but I've downsized now!

BishopBrennansArse · 12/07/2017 19:29

Yes it is, Polter.
I have my suspicions. Not the first time my family has been targeted.

youarenotkiddingme · 12/07/2017 20:29

Just be careful if it's tall about getting into car parks - they have the dodgiest height restrictions on some of them. We wouldn't want you damaging the roof of your free car whilst trying to get a free parking space near the shops now would we WinkHmm

I really do think some people live in a box. They take for granted the fact if they want to leave the house and get on a train/bus or whatever just because they decide to - that they actually can.

When did we become such a twatty unempathetic society?

Samcro · 12/07/2017 22:47

Sorry to go all serious
But mn has gone odd, there are people posting on the 5th thread bout a seriously disabled , most likely dying baby.
The posts are in the main vile, yep i know i should hide this vile stuff, but its like watching a horror film, it scares you but you keep watching.
Mn hq have allowed these awful threads, allowed the parent bashing, the vile stuff posted about brain damages,
Yep post about mm
Deleted
Point out scameon used his dc
Deleted.
And now we have people like dawndonna being targeted by trolls.
Coincidence or what,

Disclaimer i do realise that it is hrd for mn hq to moderate threqds what the subject is in the media.
But mm was, any attack on her parents and its deleted,
I just winder why 5 threads about cg still allowed

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Samcro · 13/07/2017 07:40

reported

BishopBrennansArse · 13/07/2017 07:40

I think what you are is one hell of a lot worse than brain damaged.

BishopBrennansArse · 13/07/2017 07:41

(Not that brain damage is bad but y'know)

Samcro · 13/07/2017 07:41

why the fuck can't mn have a filter on user names

BishopBrennansArse · 13/07/2017 07:42

Don't know. All these other things other sites have like decent standard of banning and filters and here has none.

Dawndonnaagain · 13/07/2017 07:52

Oh aren't you the clever one, oh no you're not, a stupid user name, a quick few posts to get round the user number crap and then a dig at vulnerable people. Still, I am impressed that you managed to post before school this morning rather than your usual playtime break time posts.

ReginaGeorgeinSheepsClothing · 13/07/2017 07:57

Also reported. Is school hols up here in Scotland, up v early for some...

FloofyCat · 13/07/2017 07:57

Oh the irony of having your point proved for you, by people actually trying to upset you. All they are doing is giving weight to your argument that it's too easy to be disablist on MN, so thanks for your assistance with that, dickheads Grin

Seriously though, people who troll like this will always exist. I do have sympathy for MNHQ, as even on this thread posters can't agree about the best method of dealing with them (lock thread v deletion v specific deletion message v ignoring etc) so it is a difficult situation. I also do see their point about deliberately being a twat goady v not realising and saying something offensive, poster being told and apologising and mending their ways.

I do think the latter situation does allow some goady fuckers to be all wide eyed "free cars and a goat but I've seen them at the gym can this be right, come and tell me about all the disabled twats you have seen at the gym?" under the radar, but again this is the GF at fault, not MNHQ. I do also think people being able to re-reg needs addressing however.

I think what I am trying to say is that I can see that there is a line MNHQ are trying to tread - the problem is we all draw the line in different places. It's worth thinking about the fact people are praising Netmums for their ability to ban both trolls and offensive words etc, but we are all still here and not on Netmums Grin I think that is because MN is much better and I do love the honesty, swearing and wit of many MNers. The light touch moderation is what gives MN its appeal to many and I think we have to accept that as a flip side of this, there will be things we Hmm at. I made a resolution some time ago to "report and hide" and the benefit to my mental health is huge.

I think trolls need addressing at source and banning PBPs Properly is the way forward, then hopefully the arguments on how to deal with hateful posts will lessen as a consequence.

professorvanvonsteinenburg · 13/07/2017 08:00

we are all still here and not on Netmums

most people have been banned from netmums, that's how they know it's really hard to sign back up.

Dawndonnaagain · 13/07/2017 08:09

The report and hide is great for you, FloofY, doesn't stop the pms that some of us are getting, though.

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 13/07/2017 08:09

Reported

Its not big and not clever...

Very sad and boring lives these people must live

And they obviously dont tell anyone what they are doing...no bragging about hacking or trolling for them as they will just look like a fucking twat

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