Hi all
Thanks for all your posts and feedback. As YetAnotherBeckyMNHQ posted on Saturday, we really don't want to see disablism on Mumsnet and we remove posts and threads which break Talk Guidelines when they're reported to us.
We've got a 'three strikes' approach - so anyone who breaks guidelines repetitively for being disablist will be banned. If we delete a post for disablism, we email the poster to let them know why - often this means that they reconsider their language, and they can’t then plead ignorance. Reports about disablism are treated in the same way as other reports about discrimination or prejudice in any form; they're a high priority and we get to them as soon as we can.
Sometimes, on weekends for eg, the process can be a bit slower; it can also sometimes take a while to go through a long thread. Apologies if some of you felt that this was the case this weekend. We’ve now banned the user who was sending unpleasant DMs - and we’ll definitely look at the idea of not allowing DMs until a poster has been posting for a certain amount of time.
We think it's worth repeating, though, what JustineMumsnet's posted about our overall moderation policy a while back. Broadly it's this: Mumsnet has elected to be an open site, and while this brings with it many many advantages - breadth of advice; the fact that there's usually someone around to help; poor advice being challenged, amongst many others - it also means that we're going to encounter different views from our own. We've chosen to be on the side of free speech - JustineMumsnet talks more about why in her post - and that means being exposed to diverse, and sometimes unpleasant, opinions.
We try to get the balance right with disablism, and always delete personal attacks or posts which we think are malicious or deliberately intended to provoke. But we don’t delete every misinformed or misguided post - that would fundamentally undermine who we are. And overall, we do believe that the challenges made to these posts do more to shift the dial than blanket deletions or taking down the thread; we understand that some of you might have lost the stomach for pointing out where those posters are going wrong, but that's where we are.
Thanks very much for your input. We do think carefully about all this, and spend a lot of time weighing things up - that won’t stop, we promise.