Blow jobs!

[pinkmango222]

So I've been divorced a number of years and am late 40s. I've dated a huge amount since my divorce and am basically having a really fun time, with no desire to settle down again.
So, here's the thing... does anyone actually get turned on by giving blow jobs? I am happy to give them, but they don't give me any fluttering's down below! The men I have slept with all bang on about their exes hating blow jobs but on the flip side, they profess to ADORE spending hours going down on a woman.
What are your thoughts?

The men I have slept with all bang on about their exes hating blow jobs

Don't believe them.

That's a manipulation tactic.

They tell you how their ex never would so that you prove to them that you're nothing like their ex...

People do, people don't. Same for going down on women!

Interesting first post.

@ZanyFox what do you mean?

Blow jobs?
NO.
Not ever.
Full stop.

Yep. I’m not a lover of giving blow jobs but I love receiving oral so fairs fair to do my bit

Not to be rude but it's what I do when I feel a little sexy but can't be arsed to put out. Everyone wins!

I do really enjoy them when we are having a session or on a date night etc.

Why are they telling you about their exes preferences?

@GreyCarpet has it spot on. You can be the cool girl over their exes. Competition! No one enjoys going down on someone for hours. Even this guy... and who cares if he can do it for hours if he's no good!

DP definitely does, and it's not just her saying that for my benefit, there's a definite physical reaction when she's giving one.

It's the same the other way round, giving someone else pleasure is a huge turn on for most people surely.

giving someone else pleasure is a huge turn on
That's what I'd say, too. Seeing their reaction to stuff you do is a turn-on. But not if the situation is unpleasant to you in some way - if you're in an uncomfortable position, can't breathe, don't like the taste, feel used, etc.

The men I have slept with all bang on about their exes hating blow jobs
Tbh, this would make me think that e.g. the men's hygiene standards or the effort they put into sex might have trailed off over the years with their ex. I'd see it as a warning about what my future might be like if I stayed with them!

Yeah, if he is going down on you for hours he probably has shit technique and can’t make women cum.

Smegma alert. 😬

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Depends on the guy. Hated them with my ex whose member used to smell cheesy all the time even straight after a shower 🤮
Love giving them to current DP who has a nicer dick and always smells fresh 😆 the enjoyment he gets from it turns me on.

I like giving them & I'm excellent, even if I do say so myself. Lucky my DH reciprocates...

Ha. Ok, I’ll bite. I really enjoy it. (Maybe not beyond the 5 min mark or so though!)

When I have a crush on someone, in my head I imagine going down on them over any other sexual act. It’s nice, you feel like you have complete control over them and their pleasure for a few mins and they can’t resist you.

And it turns me on in the sense that if used as foreplay, you can imagine what’s going to happen next while going down on them and work yourself up for the main event.

No !!!! You aren't supposed to bite! 😁

😂😂😂

Yuck. Makes me heave just thinking about it.

Yes I really enjoy giving them to my husband, he's quite a vocal man and gives lots of compliments and praise while I do it which my body gives great reaction too

God, no, they make me feel sick.

I’ve done them out of duty, but I don’t enjoy it.

Yeah I have to say I actually do love giving them to my husband and he loves to “return the favour”, it definitely isn’t a chore for either of us in our household! But everybody is different

“Fluttering’s” 🤔

Just as an aside, what year do they teach apostrophes these days?