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NinaOakley · 21/09/2024 13:26

Honestly love making someone feel pleasure and special, personal hygiene assumed, but do not like the taste a semen and really not one to swallow.

A gentle hand on my head can be soothing, though there is a lot to be said for keeping a man tied to the bed until I’m done with him, too!

Fs365 · 21/09/2024 16:16

Lucy25 · 21/09/2024 13:12

I wasn’t asking.My point was, you have a low opinion of women, your comments are vile.

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Just because you don’t agree with different PoV , doesn’t mean it’s
“vile”.

Lucy25 · 21/09/2024 17:12

Fs365 · 21/09/2024 16:16

Just because you don’t agree with different PoV , doesn’t mean it’s
“vile”.

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I’ve read your comments, that’s enough for me to know, what sort of man you are.It’s no wonder you’re single.

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Exactly.Think it’s personal choice, if someone doesn’t like or enjoy, fair enough, it’s not for everyone.
It says more about the person, who feels the need, to say it’s disgusting, on a public forum.

Fs365 · 22/09/2024 09:35

Lucy25 · 21/09/2024 21:32

Exactly.Think it’s personal choice, if someone doesn’t like or enjoy, fair enough, it’s not for everyone.
It says more about the person, who feels the need, to say it’s disgusting, on a public forum.

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at what point did I use the term “disgusting” ?

some has a difference point of view from you and you are upset about it

JustLifeOnEarth · 22/09/2024 11:51

Fs365 · 22/09/2024 09:35

at what point did I use the term “disgusting” ?

some has a difference point of view from you and you are upset about it

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“do you think those men actually enjoy going down on you? , almost certainly not”
At no point was the word “disgusting” used—but you did use bold type to great effect to get your point across.
If it’s not for you, fair enough.
There is plenty of evidence on here that some men and women enjoy giving and receiving. There’s also plenty of evidence that others don’t. You implied that no men enjoy giving(which is a sweeping assumption) and you got a reaction(not a surprise).
It’s ok to not want to give head. And it’s ok to enjoy it. We are all different.

Lucy25 · 22/09/2024 12:31

Fs365 · 22/09/2024 09:35

at what point did I use the term “disgusting” ?

some has a difference point of view from you and you are upset about it

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You clearly feel the need to split hairs, l’ll make it clearer, your comments are disgusting towards women, your sole aim, is to try and put women, off.It’s strange how, you’re now, the one who’s offended.

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Fs365 · 22/09/2024 15:37

JustLifeOnEarth · 22/09/2024 11:51

“do you think those men actually enjoy going down on you? , almost certainly not”
At no point was the word “disgusting” used—but you did use bold type to great effect to get your point across.
If it’s not for you, fair enough.
There is plenty of evidence on here that some men and women enjoy giving and receiving. There’s also plenty of evidence that others don’t. You implied that no men enjoy giving(which is a sweeping assumption) and you got a reaction(not a surprise).
It’s ok to not want to give head. And it’s ok to enjoy it. We are all different.

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I didn’t imply that in the slightest, but you are assuming I did, ( as the other person does )

both my previous and current partners enjoy receiving oral - but that doesn’t mean I enjoy performing it - I do it because I know they enjoy receiving - so I do it.

In the same way that my partner doesn’t enjoy watching MoTD , but she watches it with me because I enjoy it

there are loads of things that we do in life not because we want to but our partners do.

I firmly believe that no one should do anything they don’t want to ( inside or outside of the bedroom), but at some point you have go with the flow and things that you don’t necessarily want to as you know it makes others happy.

so back to the point in question- do men enjoy going down , I’m sure some really do - but if their partners enjoy it - then most will.

do women enjoy going down on men , I’m sure some do,( hygiene etc ) but equally I’m sure there are some who do it as they know they partner likes it

Lucy25 · 22/09/2024 16:34

Fs365 · 22/09/2024 15:37

I didn’t imply that in the slightest, but you are assuming I did, ( as the other person does )

both my previous and current partners enjoy receiving oral - but that doesn’t mean I enjoy performing it - I do it because I know they enjoy receiving - so I do it.

In the same way that my partner doesn’t enjoy watching MoTD , but she watches it with me because I enjoy it

there are loads of things that we do in life not because we want to but our partners do.

I firmly believe that no one should do anything they don’t want to ( inside or outside of the bedroom), but at some point you have go with the flow and things that you don’t necessarily want to as you know it makes others happy.

so back to the point in question- do men enjoy going down , I’m sure some really do - but if their partners enjoy it - then most will.

do women enjoy going down on men , I’m sure some do,( hygiene etc ) but equally I’m sure there are some who do it as they know they partner likes it

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Nobody is assuming or implying, they’re going by what you said.You’re now trying to justify, what you said and also making it clear you want to have the last word.I’m the 4th person who has said something about your comments, according to you, everyone else must be wrong.Really not sure why you feel the need to carry this on.
If you feel you must keep, justifying yourself, then it really is just, whatever.

Fs365 · 22/09/2024 16:34

Lucy25 · 22/09/2024 12:31

You clearly feel the need to split hairs, l’ll make it clearer, your comments are disgusting towards women, your sole aim, is to try and put women, off.It’s strange how, you’re now, the one who’s offended.

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There are 6 pages of responses on this thread, mostly from women, lots saying they are happy to give, but it does nothing for them

“So, here's the thing... does anyone actually get turned on by giving blow jobs? I am happy to give them, but they don't give me any fluttering's down below! “

^^ A direct quote from the opening post, why on earth do think men should think any differently about women?

JustLifeOnEarth · 22/09/2024 16:43

Sorry if I got the wrong end of the stick, but that’s genuinely how your words came across upon reading them.
I know everything in a relationship is about compromise and I get that sometimes men and women give when they don’t really want/feel in the mood to keep partners happy, as you say.
I think it’s just a shock to see it spelt out so bluntly(as in your previous posts rather than this one which is much more balanced and measured—thank you for the clarification).

sammylady37 · 24/09/2024 09:04

Acesup6995 · 16/09/2024 17:07

Man I wish my wife would see it as a treat she could give me to let me go down on her. I’ve tried that idea telling her it would be the best gift she could ever give me, perfect gift to give me for birthdays, anniversaries, Christmas, Hannukah all 8 days, kwanza, weddings, bar mitzvahs, Presidents’ Day, it’s the gift that just keeps on giving. But she has just totally closed her mind to any possibility of liking it. When I try to go for it lucky if I even make it down there for a second before she shuts me down. Last time I got to go down on her for any length of time was 2019 after a friends wedding she was drunk I went for it. Her body was reacting well but after few minutes she got all in her head about how gross it made her feel. I’ve told her how badly I miss it and her response was I should be with somebody else then. It’s honestly a problem between us cause I literally feel depressed a little that I’ll never get to go down in a woman ever again. What I wouldn’t give to taste a woman again. She is literally the only woman I ever met that says she doesn’t like it. Didn’t even think such a thing was possible.

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I find it very disturbing that you’ve said twice that you used the opportunity of her being drunk to “go for it”. You know she doesn’t want it. She’s told you that. Repeatedly. And you ‘went for it’ when she was drunk. Despicable.

Kerkyra2024 · 24/09/2024 15:37

sammylady37 · 24/09/2024 09:04

I find it very disturbing that you’ve said twice that you used the opportunity of her being drunk to “go for it”. You know she doesn’t want it. She’s told you that. Repeatedly. And you ‘went for it’ when she was drunk. Despicable.

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This also makes me uncomfortable. Just because she is drunk does not mean it's a free for all. If she says no to it sober then that no still stands when drunk

valentinka31 · 26/09/2024 17:39

niadainud · 17/08/2024 18:27

What sort of illiterate men do you go to bed with?

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What's wrong with going to bed with an illiterate man? Presumably he has other qualities in spades to make up for it..

valentinka31 · 26/09/2024 17:53

JustLifeOnEarth · 22/09/2024 16:43

Sorry if I got the wrong end of the stick, but that’s genuinely how your words came across upon reading them.
I know everything in a relationship is about compromise and I get that sometimes men and women give when they don’t really want/feel in the mood to keep partners happy, as you say.
I think it’s just a shock to see it spelt out so bluntly(as in your previous posts rather than this one which is much more balanced and measured—thank you for the clarification).

I think the reason women have got upset by Fs365's opinion is that he said to someone 'do you think men actually enjoy going down on you?' as if we shouldn't think they do, and also about it not being a nice place to put your face and mouth. And these are the exact things that many women worry about, and it makes them feel upset/uptight and that's often why they don't like it being done to them. It feels too intimate and they feel too exposed, and possibly can't quite believe the guy isn't thinking like Fs365 and thinking it's a horrible thing to do but he's just forcing himself for her pleasure.

And that's a real turn off.

So Fx365 hit a common nerve for many women.

If women don't want to receive oral, I really think 99.9% of the time it will be down to embarrassement/shame/humiliation, although tbf it's also possible for a guy giving oral to feel a bit invasive/violating if he doesn't do it right.

Needs to start with gentle and respectful lapping in my opinion.

I feel lucky reading all this, because I love giving bjs and it excites me so much, and I love receiving oral if done properly and by the right person.

valentinka31 · 26/09/2024 17:56

also, is it not just normal to make sure that area of yourself is clean? And not with chemicals but just like properly using the shower or having a bath? I have a shower in the morning and a bath at night... don't all women make it a priority to keep that area clean?

Thank you to all the guys who like sweaty pussy though : ))

JustLifeOnEarth · 26/09/2024 18:04

valentinka31 · 26/09/2024 17:53

I think the reason women have got upset by Fs365's opinion is that he said to someone 'do you think men actually enjoy going down on you?' as if we shouldn't think they do, and also about it not being a nice place to put your face and mouth. And these are the exact things that many women worry about, and it makes them feel upset/uptight and that's often why they don't like it being done to them. It feels too intimate and they feel too exposed, and possibly can't quite believe the guy isn't thinking like Fs365 and thinking it's a horrible thing to do but he's just forcing himself for her pleasure.

And that's a real turn off.

So Fx365 hit a common nerve for many women.

If women don't want to receive oral, I really think 99.9% of the time it will be down to embarrassement/shame/humiliation, although tbf it's also possible for a guy giving oral to feel a bit invasive/violating if he doesn't do it right.

Needs to start with gentle and respectful lapping in my opinion.

I feel lucky reading all this, because I love giving bjs and it excites me so much, and I love receiving oral if done properly and by the right person.

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I completely agree with you, but the Fs365 was insisting he hadn’t meant it that way, hence my response.

niadainud · 26/09/2024 20:12

valentinka31 · 26/09/2024 17:39

What's wrong with going to bed with an illiterate man? Presumably he has other qualities in spades to make up for it..

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Well nothing, really. Personally I'd struggle to be attracted to someone who said, "I've came" and "I've went" etc, but perhaps he'd find alternative ways to be a cunning linguist...

StarlightLady · 26/09/2024 21:16

I’ve covered the blowie thing previously. As a 40 something woman who is well past the curious stage, l would like to reassure any woman who will listen to me that there is nothing in the least unpleasant about going down on a woman.

Indeed, l would suggest that everyone would benefit from oral only sessions every once in a while. There is more to sex than insertion.

Fs365 · 27/09/2024 07:34

JustLifeOnEarth · 26/09/2024 18:04

I completely agree with you, but the Fs365 was insisting he hadn’t meant it that way, hence my response.

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That’s not really what I mean, the meaning is getting lost in the non verbal communication

Up the thtread somewhere, somebody said that a bunch of men said they enjoyed giving oral, or words to that effect, but I bet they don’t really enjoy it, I bet they do it as they know that their partners will enjoy it.

just look back across this thread at the number of posters ( women I presume), who say give blow jobs because their partners enjoy it , but it does nothing for them,
why do you think it would be an different for a man? , you might not like it, but it’s true.

go bank a reread the opening post on this thread , reverse the genders and it still holds true

DrinkingTime · 27/09/2024 07:58

StarlightLady · 26/09/2024 21:16

I’ve covered the blowie thing previously. As a 40 something woman who is well past the curious stage, l would like to reassure any woman who will listen to me that there is nothing in the least unpleasant about going down on a woman.

Indeed, l would suggest that everyone would benefit from oral only sessions every once in a while. There is more to sex than insertion.

How bizarre. Some will like it and some won't, much like everything else. It's weird that you're 'reassuring' others when you can't possibly speak for everyone. Everyone's feelings are valid so stop trying to push it into others as that would feel coercive and manipulative, like you're trying to say there is something wrong with someone who doesn't like it.

StarlightLady · 27/09/2024 08:17

DrinkingTime · 27/09/2024 07:58

How bizarre. Some will like it and some won't, much like everything else. It's weird that you're 'reassuring' others when you can't possibly speak for everyone. Everyone's feelings are valid so stop trying to push it into others as that would feel coercive and manipulative, like you're trying to say there is something wrong with someone who doesn't like it.

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Nope! I don’t pretend to speak for everyone, MN is a platform for opinions. I am not saying everyone should like it. I am saying that taste, positioning etc is not unpleasant. Many women have concerns on this issue.

DrinkingTime · 27/09/2024 08:27

Nope! I don’t pretend to speak for everyone, MN is a platform for opinions. I am not saying everyone should like it. I am saying that taste, positioning etc is not unpleasant. Many women have concerns on this issue.

For you.

Others may find it unpleasant. Again, you can't speak for everyone or 'reassure' anyone of anything. If someone finds it unpleasant, then that is valid.