Blow jobs!

[pinkmango222]

So I've been divorced a number of years and am late 40s. I've dated a huge amount since my divorce and am basically having a really fun time, with no desire to settle down again.
So, here's the thing... does anyone actually get turned on by giving blow jobs? I am happy to give them, but they don't give me any fluttering's down below! The men I have slept with all bang on about their exes hating blow jobs but on the flip side, they profess to ADORE spending hours going down on a woman.
What are your thoughts?

I don't like giving it and it does nothing for me. Luckily DH isn't that fussed about receiving either.

DH does love to give it though. So based on my sample of one, the men you have met may well be telling the truth.

Congratulations, you've just provided the perve with it's wank material 👍

I love giving and it does turn me on. I also have been with men who spend a lot of time pleasuring me and giving oral. It's really a matter of preference and being open about what each person like, without being offensive or nasty.

I have never enjoyed cunnilingus. I met one man who was good at it, but it still didn't work for me, and dozens who were so bloody awful I had to drag them off me. I don't think I'm very good at blow jobs, either, so it feels like a fair exchange.

There you go, OP, maybe I'm one of the exes!

I love oral sex on men or women. Giving pleasure is a major turn on. I like being in control.

Personally yes, I really enjoy it, I get really turned on by it. Both the physical feeling and the visual of a man I find incredibly attractive being pleasured. I like to make it last and take my time. I love every bit of his body.

I don't think people should do things they don't enjoy out of duty tbh. I don't understand people that would enjoy sexual gratification from someone feeling repulsed by an act.

Very much enjoy giving, as long as they are clean, poor personal hygiene I just couldn’t do it!
From my experience I generally don’t enjoy receiving oral however I do think that is because I’ve not had it from someone who is good at it and now I think back I’ve rarely had a partner who’s good at any kind of foreplay without an instruction manual!

I will only ever give a BJ to a man who has been circumcised.

Don't anyone ask me why, because I'm not going to explain myself.

And no it doesn't turn me on, and I find it boring.. I do it for the same reason as a pp, if a man does it to me I do it to return the 'favour.'

I quite enjoy giving them, but if the man puts his hand on my head to push it down that is an instant turn-off and makes me absolutely furious.

A classic. Along with, "I've never came from a BJ"

totally overrated by internet, porn etc. Blow jobs (for women and men) have to be given when the 'taker' is super clean. Women are turned off by cheesy dicks and men can't stand fishy vaginas.

That's disgusting, you poor thing!

I wouldn't say I love it as in, get some kind of personal pleasure from it. But, he likes it and he smells fresh so game on.

Nah, there’s a reason it’s a called a blow “job”, it’s a bit of a chore tbh.

What is he doing that takes hours?

@Itssamemario <gasps> oh no! 🤦🏼‍♀️

WTF?

I love doing it for my DP it is also a turn on for me to give him a blowjob especially as he keeps himself clean so there's no unpleasant 'taste' to him. I haven't done it till he finishes as we usually use oral as part of foreplay when we do it.

This is what I was thinking!
Have you seen the internet @MonsteraMama?

Not only do I love to give a blow job, it also turns me on hugely. Only a relatively recent thing in my life though, so maybe it's penis specific?!

Hmmmm difficult one, do I enjoy giving, generally no but I do like the control of pleasure giving situations so it’s often a spontaneous act and when their least expecting it and quiet often a “one time only” event lol

They certainly don’t send me all a flutter, but l do find them quite comforting; maybe l was deprived of a dummy as a kid! l once asked a (single) make friend if l could when l was upset over something! At first he thought he misheard me. I’d do the same again.

In addition, l enjoy the responses received and the sharing of pleasure. It’s nice growing from flaccid.

l do like a man to be freshly showered though. Plus awkward positions, thrusting and/or head holding are not on. I like to be pleasantly comfortable and respected, it is not a competition to see how much can fit in my mouth.

In short, l’m happy to give a lot but l expect a lot. As for those up thread mentioning poor cunnilingus, try the discovery of another woman. They understand how your body works.

Not turned on no but I do like a man who is good at going down on me, my current partner is awesome at it and giving him a blow job is just part of making him happy in return.
I’m not really keen on men who won’t go down on a woman, most of my ex partners have been great at it except for one and I didn’t really like giving him a blow job tbh.

@aCatCalledFawkes - As l have said elsewhere on MN l won’t have sex with someone who will not go down on me. I’ve even been called “shitty” on MN (by a man) for saying it.

Me neither. I’m 46yr and been single and happy for the most part of the last 10yrs. I can choose who I want to have sex with and I choose to be with a man who does go down on me. Thankfully my current partner is totally on the same page which means I’m happy to give to him as he does to me.
I’m done spending time giving a man a blow job who won’t reciprocate. Fuck that shit.

I know thread you are on about, whilst a man can choose not to do it, we can also choose not to be with them too.