Does a larger penis make a difference?

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My partner is average size (about 5 inches), I can only orgasm if we have sex in certain positions, on my back and legs up near my shoulders, or where he can penetrate me more deeply, accompanied by clitoral play.
I suppose it would be interesting if I was a bit fuller, whether it would make a difference to my orgasm. I’ve never had sex with a well-endowed man, does it make a difference to those who have?

Not to focus too much on hypospadias, but it does impact 1/200 boys, and severe hypospadias does have an impact on size too....lovely though that there are some experiences here where it hasn't, perhaps a less severe form.

Also, as PP have said, it's not all about the willy, women have different sized vaginas, so ideally you find a good match. As the PP said about only finding tall slim women attractive - presumably because they have longer vaginas to accommodate him.

Haha mythree,

No, its just that being 6.5 anyone more than 8 inches shorter than me doesnt work and pref is for 5.11 plus

How doesn't it work, otter? I'm 5'0 partner is 6'3 and has a preference for tiny women

@Otterhound - how doesn’t sex work with someone a lot shorter than you? My husband is one inch shorter than you, I’m 5ft 4, we have sex just fine. You must be doing it wrong

I have no idea about sex with someone who is 5.4.
What i meant was i’ve never been sexually attracted to women under about 5.9

@Snoozysnoozy I've just been unlucky then with coming across quite a few men with less than 5" then.

And taller men sadly doesn't indicate that they will be bigger down below and can be below average as well.

I know some women may be cruel if a partner doesn't measure up, but I think most women appreciate that men can't help having what they have or perhaps don't have.

If that is due to hypospadias or other factors.

Though just as some women are naturally more likely to be considered 'plus sized', and most likely to be too short for @Otterhound to find sexually attractive. Doesn't mean that Otter and men shouldn't have their preferences. Just as we should be allowed to have our preferences.

Just natural that not everyone will meet someone else's preferences.

@Otterhound - That makes sense now, when you said it doesn’t work, I thought you meant you found it impossible to have sex with someone shorter.

Incidentally no significant correlation has been found between a man's height and the size of his penis. Sexual attraction is very unlikely to be based mainly on penis size so any height preference is personal taste...although big differences in height of men and women may mean some sex positions are trickier and others easier

@Sparkybloke which ones do you think are easier / harder ? Asking for a friend

@Sparkybloke

Incidentally no significant correlation has been found between a man's height and the size of his penis. Sexual attraction is very unlikely to be based mainly on penis size so any height preference is personal taste...although big differences in height of men and women may mean some sex positions are trickier and others easier

Same with muscly or bigger guys, their penises are often short and thin, whereas it’s the skinny men with huge penises, you’d maybe think this was the opposite way, but oh no, skinny man equals big cock, the foot size thing is true ime.

What's the foot thing?

@sherazade...tall men and short ladies he can hold her and she can wrap her legs around his waist with him inside her! Especially if he is strong armed. Different heights/leg lengths can make rear entry positions (especially
Standing doogy) easy or more tricky depending on who is taller.

@Catullus5...bigger feet equals bigger cock....again not backed up by science...although taller people tend to have bigger feet.
@HateJudgementalPeople...there is evidence that men who use steroids in addition to work outs to body build and get to extreme states of musculature do cause issues with erections... men who extreme body build may not be able to perform! I'm skinny but perfectly within the normal range and it works just fine

@HateJudgmentalPeople I haven't found anything to be true!

I think I need to try some of your Scottish ex's. I've found plenty of Scots to be both short and thin!

[quote Sparkybloke]@sherazade...tall men and short ladies he can hold her and she can wrap her legs around his waist with him inside her! Especially if he is strong armed. Different heights/leg lengths can make rear entry positions (especially
Standing doogy) easy or more tricky depending on who is taller.[/quote]
Yes we find some sex positions difficult being different heights (mostly if he’s standing and I’m on the bed doing doggy but he just alters his position) I am light enough and he’s strong enough though to lift me up with my legs wrapped around him too, which is always nice!

@LipstickOnYourCollar5 I love it when a man is strong enough to be able to do that.

[quote ScottishZoe]@HateJudgmentalPeople I haven't found anything to be true!

I think I need to try some of your Scottish ex's. I've found plenty of Scots to be both short and thin! [/quote]
Big dicks but shit boyfriends

The scientist in me wants to politely ask about sample sizes used to establish the findings set in this thread please.
What were the penis-owner selection criteria?
Measurement methods? Self-reporting by penis-owners is notoriously unreliable, and measurement by users under low light conditions may be inaccurate. Metric/imperial?
How were findings published?
And was there follow-up?

@Danceswithwhippets

The scientist in me wants to politely ask about sample sizes used to establish the findings set in this thread please. What were the penis-owner selection criteria? Measurement methods? Self-reporting by penis-owners is notoriously unreliable, and measurement by users under low light conditions may be inaccurate. Metric/imperial? How were findings published? And was there follow-up?

And peer review?

For those interested..bjui-journals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/bju.13010
You have to pay to read the article but there is a good summary on Wikipedia along with all sorts of other penis related trivia here
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size

The biggest penis I tried was when I had a ONS, he was girthy, a nice size and felt fantastic.

I once had a man that was too long and the only position we could do was missionary, and I hate that position!

In today's Times there is a report of a study by Kings College, London reporting that size (or at least length) does affect how satisfying a woman finds PIV sex.

It's depth of penetration...