Does a larger penis make a difference?

[Rosesareredd]

My partner is average size (about 5 inches), I can only orgasm if we have sex in certain positions, on my back and legs up near my shoulders, or where he can penetrate me more deeply, accompanied by clitoral play.
I suppose it would be interesting if I was a bit fuller, whether it would make a difference to my orgasm. I’ve never had sex with a well-endowed man, does it make a difference to those who have?

@HateJudgmentalPeople. Just IME, but have to disagree entirely with the woman in the video- she's young I guess.Penetrative sex got better after DC and particularly late 30's and beyond. If the user does far more than jab in and out - it really isn't that simple, moved in the right way, it can hit the spot- then it's how deep, how much pace and for how long that can be maintained - all of which are down to owner ability and definitely. So absolutely the wizard counts, there is far more than just in/out will do. Also IME, the largest were exactly the ones who thought in/out was all that's required, maybe that's why she thinks that's all there is if she keeps going for big ones ( ask her 15 years down the line, she may be of a different opinion then).

My dp has a small one probably about 4 inches and I’m never satisfied . My ex partner was about 5.5 and I did like that even though it was average then we split up and I had sex with a guy with a thick penis and I was in heaven . That feeling of being stretched was something else and I did enjoy it a little too much . No one else I’ve had sex with has been able to match up since and my dp now is the smallest I’ve been with and size really does matter !!!

the people saying a man with a smaller one who knows what he doing is better to a man with a bigger one who doesn't know what he doing are just avoiding the question, because it's quite a basic question and not one about skill

I'm echoing someone upthread... it's a good thing I'm a hell of a wizard because I was definitely at the back of the line when wands were being allocated.

@HateJudgmentalPeople

I don’t know why more of us aren’t lesbians because I for one don’t need a cock to come, I actually think I’m not a fan of penetrative sex and I don’t think I’ve ever been, I like sex to last no more than 10 mins but foreplay should last ages obviously, except most men are the opposite, so many men are just shit at sex and for all they love it as well then it’s weird.

I suppose this depend on your POV, some men might say they don’t need a vagina to orgasm and prefer penetrate sex to foreplay,

@Whatliesbeneath707

It’s great to read the variety of replies to your question *@Rosesareredd*

Not wanting to derail the thread, but somehow it does bother me when we start to discuss/comment on penis size. Men, just like women cannot change the equipment they have! I am sure we probably aren’t doing men any favours by making them feel that their penis is inadequate or less than average etc. It worries me that we could be setting men up to fail by discussing this and does it lead to the psychological problems that we read about on here? As women, we are also not doing ourselves any favours either if our men feel inadequate/inferior in the size department. Please don’t think that I’m having a go at you OP, I’m really not. A size thread crops up on here quite frequently. I totally agree with @Inthesameboatatmo in that it’s not the wand but the wizard that’s important. Love that expression! I would think that certain activities (anal) might be better with someone who is not huge! I also often think we are all so individual/different in size/shape that hopefully what suits one person might not suit the other, so hopefully there is something for everyone 😃

As a guy, it's only natural that some women will have a preference for larger or girthier and that's absolutely fine, It is what it is. I'm average length and above average girth so you get used to using it in a way that works for your partner.

No, no difference to me. What counts is the sincerity and integrity of the man on the end of it.

A man that wants to please you, will make sure he does. Those that think a big one is all that’s needed are just bloody arrogant.

4 inch is perfect
bjs are so much easier. They enjoy it & usually repay the favour

This has been discussed many times. There are numerous views. Some women undoubtedly enjoy a large penis be it length or girth. However just as many others don't care...what ever the size its probably more about the man to which it is attached and how they use it that matters! M 59. Possibly 6 inches long...just!

My last relationship was with a man with a whopper.. 9.5 inches and quite thick. I still didn't orgasm from penetration but he did feel wonderful inside. I got injured a couple of times when he thrust to deeply though. My current partner is average and I was really worried I wouldn't enjoy sex with him but am happy to report it still feels good and I've gotten closer to orgasm with him than anyone else (just from penetration). I also love that he can thrust all the way in from behind and it doesn't hurt.

So yes, it makes a difference but not that much. Also, the big dick was attached to a big dick so....

I definitely prefer well endowed men, I find they last longer etc

I had was curious about black guys and I found this handsome black guy that work close to my job and we started talk almos everyday then we went out and OMG biggest I ever seen huge and he knows how to work with it so not team big

Genuinely always wondered how it feels for the woman, but isn’t it as much down to what you do as the size of the equipment

@rkahic
It is both. A man with a large one who doesn't know what to do with it, his hands or mouth isn't much good. A man that can use all of them is a delight. Yes a large one is lovely and I find feels so lovely when inside me but is only part of the overall picture of what really makes me feel good

My exH is huge. Me on top was painful. BJ made me gag (I have a small jaw). He also has a tied tongue so found oral painful himself. Our sex life was difficult. I was also his first and didn't train him properly as I naively thought at the age of 27 that it wouldn't matter. 25yrs later I realise that it mattered hugely!

Now with a guy who is very small. And has been teased his whole life. (And has 2 kids and 2 exes) But he is my best shag ever (in a sample size of about 30). He makes me orgasm just by playing with my nipples! As a pp said, it's all the other stuff that matters (I usually cum at least 4 times before PiV) and the penetration is just the finale to help him orgasm. I love that I can fellate him comfortably for ages, and that I can sit on top and just rock, which teases us both.
I absolutely could not be happier with my "little friend" and the delightful man at the other end 😈

I love this thread! My stbx is 7.3” - yeah, I’ve measured it. A long time ago. At his request - because he thinks he’s a prince (he really isn’t). I’d say average girth. Whilst I do appreciate the ‘full’ feeling, he wasn’t very talented, nor did he take hints. He would grind his hips and at 6”4 and fifteen stone (on top of my petite size ten frame) I would feel crushed and claustrophobic. And end up with a uti and a bruised pelvic bone because of the grinding. And don’t get me started on the foreplay - it’s like he was trying to rub a scratch off a glass with sandpaper.

First husband was about 5” but knew exactly what to do with it and we had lots of fun preceeding PIV. Unfortunately lots of other women in the neighbourhood were getting the same treatment and one of them was pregnant at the same time as me 😒.

Im hoping it will be ‘third time’s a charm’ when I’m ready to look for the next man. I’m 53, and I’m still hungry for some physical excitement!

I like the sound of good girth!

At 53 you have many more years to look forward to😉

My wife is of Indian heritage and very petite, and sex is always initially painful for her, so the size of the woman's vagina may also play a factor for some couples. We always have to start very slowly. Once things get going she seems to enjoy it quite a bit, though. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Of course it does- how could it not make a difference?

I've had so small it took an effort to find a position it would get in (poor guy!) right up to 12 inches (made my cervix bleed, sex was painful when he fully thrusted and I got a lot of UTI).

yes it completely does. Having sex with a guy who has a longer wider dick means you come way quicker and without the adapted positions, clitoral business etc.

It's true.

Guy here. women respond to different stimuli and men do too. Size alone won’t satisfy if he doesn’t know what to do with it and just hammers away. A woman has unique points that stimulate from G spot, to A spot and cervix. Some women hate cervix touch others adore it, so horses for courses. Generally more girth is better but again not a hard and fast rule