Does a larger penis make a difference?

[Rosesareredd]

My partner is average size (about 5 inches), I can only orgasm if we have sex in certain positions, on my back and legs up near my shoulders, or where he can penetrate me more deeply, accompanied by clitoral play.
I suppose it would be interesting if I was a bit fuller, whether it would make a difference to my orgasm. I’ve never had sex with a well-endowed man, does it make a difference to those who have?

Yes, it is very important to me. I think when you have had a nice big thick one with a skilled partner it is impossible to match.

As others said, that feeling of being filled up and given a proper seeing to is something I love. Also find them more attractive to look at. Could just be me but I also find I get more pleasure from deep penetration.

Always makes me sigh that most sex threads like this in 2021 always have one or two moralising comments that think women should not be allowed to discuss their sexual preferences like men have been able to do openly and without shame for thousands of years

@namechangednorth

I so much prefer a larger one as well, a nice thick 7-8" is ideal for me, under 6" just doesn't really do it, and if under 5" then they need to wear a sleeve otherwise its pointless.

Also can I just ask do you measure when soft or hard?...

@cosmicbabe

Also can I just ask do you measure when soft or hard?...

Ive never measured so im guessing. But would say hard as a soft 8inch dick would be fucking huge hard!

I prefer a larger one but I am not a great fan of anal, or indeed oral. PIV is what I like, simple pleasures for me.

A big cock is more visually stimulating to me but that's the only positive I've found personally. Thick ones are more difficult to put condoms on (even getting the supposedly wide ones), are more difficult to suck, I need far more warming up so quickies are out, and long ones are more uncomfortable in some positions. The only thing that's made a difference to my enjoyment of sex is the selflessness and skill of the lover, never the size of his cock. The angle of the dangle/shape makes a difference too, and how compatible a "fit" we are.

As others have said, I think girth is more important.

However, I do like the LOOK of a big penis, so even if it doesn’t make a difference physically, seeing one does turn me on and may help make the sex be more erotic and pleasurable as a result.

Hmmmm agree with the poster who said that you wouldn't want to make men feel inadequate because they cannot change what they're born with....that being said I do like the look and feel of around 7/8 '' which is luckily what DH is.
However he is also a very generous sexual partner so doesn't rely solely on size. I do sometimes wish I were able to offer a higher quality of oral as I'm only ever able to get 3/4 of it in!

oh help, not this again. I got into trouble saying what I really though in the last thread ...

I guess it's personal. Individual.

5.5-6 inches, fair girth - versatile, pleasant. Blow jobs are fine and enjoyable. Right position sex fine.

But tbh a bigger one does give more experience inside me. I find.

Feels bad talking about penis size in isolation though. Mechanically, a bigger one inside feels kind of more exciting. But it's all a question of who it's attached to. An average one is also perfect, if attached to the right guy.

Obviously a bigger one attached to the right guy would be ... mmm.

This thread is making me feel just great!

Large can make the difference - one can become a lot more vocal. Love it starting slow with small trusts and then full length. Swirling of the hips makes all the difference in between gentle thrusts.

That said it’s all about how sensitive and caring your lover is (plus how much you are in love with each other)

Men can't change what they have but that shouldn't prevent us from being able to discuss preferences in that we have.

Girth is more important but there is still a minimum length required to go with decent girth!

Personally for me anything under 5" is just too small.

@Zoe - ShaShwing - 7-8inch and girth - nothing wrong with a beautiful penis

And an expert with use, making one climax with skill and sensuality

Everyone should be allowed to like what they like, as long as they are kind about those who for what ever reason dont meet the required criteria!!

Variable pleasures from all types. I suppose I'm glad to have experienced a range now.

What I did find was that one particular man with a fairly large penis had had such difficulty having penetrative sex with his first girlfriend for years, that he had learned to truly love non penetrative sex. Absolutely amazing at oral, hands and everything else. He hadn't been able to have PIV until he'd been having sex for about 7 years.

[sigh]

I have to say that confidence does a lot of work. I've had sex with men with very nice average sort of cocks who are so paranoid about them and have been bullied, that they struggle a lot with sex. Whereas a guy I met with really quite a small one but lots of confidence and I had a great time.

@Rosesareredd

I like many have played with my fair share.
I find 7/8 inches and with a girth it best.

I did once have a bf with a whopper and he was a great lover too. Had amazing sex but had to be careful especially with doggie.

Mine is average length and average girth.
Should I take up golf?

@Samedaysameshit

Mine is average length and average girth. Should I take up golf?

Don't putt yourself down.

I'm always slightly surprised whenever these threads come up. There's a lot of women (men too perhaps) that insist they prefer 7-8". I'm sure that I saw one poster on another thread say she only ever had sex with men that were 7" plus. Although I'm sure that from research penises that large are vanishingly rare.

Maybe they don't know what the size is? I'm just over 6" and decent girth but my wife has told her friends I'm 7" plus. I've corrected her whenever she's mentioned it but she's still convinced it's over 7"

I'd agree that porn etc has distorted many people's idea of what is average or normal. There's very little understanding of 'grower vs shower' either IMO. I'm convinced my dh's penis was either average or above average when erect, but he was very compact when not erect and used to get bullied on that basis. TBH the bullies were just bullies and looking for something to bully about. tbh the size of a flaccid penis hasn't got much to do with anything but it varies far more.

@Myotherusernamewastakenagain same experience. There's inches and then there's girl inches. I've had a few women convinced I was 7+ when I'm a very modest 6 1/4.

@BasicDad - I thought it was always the guys that added on the extra inches, not the girls 🤔

Guys add, girls just get it wrong

Firmly said tongue in cheek 🙂

What I want to know is at what point in proceedings the tape measure comes out.