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Rosesareredd · 2021-07-27T08:20:06+00:00

My partner is average size (about 5 inches), I can only orgasm if we have sex in certain positions, on my back and legs up near my shoulders, or where he can penetrate me more deeply, accompanied by clitoral play. I suppose it would be interesting if I was a bit fuller, whether it would make a difference to my orgasm. I’ve never had sex with a well-endowed man, does it make a difference to those who have?

GrumpyTerrier · 27/08/2021 18:11

In my experience big doesnt mean better. Long doesnt mean better. It really is about shape and fit and how it is used. I have known guys with massive ones but they were very "wam bam thank you ma'am". And some of the best I've had were more long and thinner. I really do believe from my own experience that it is what you do not what you have.

As an aside, in Roman times having a massive cock was thought of as undesirable. That's why the statues never do.

gemsgv · 27/08/2021 18:40

@GrumpyTerrier

In my experience big doesnt mean better. Long doesnt mean better. It really is about shape and fit and how it is used. I have known guys with massive ones but they were very "wam bam thank you ma'am". And some of the best I've had were more long and thinner. I really do believe from my own experience that it is what you do not what you have.

As an aside, in Roman times having a massive cock was thought of as undesirable. That's why the statues never do.

I think saying it can be big but not used right is kinda side stepping the question

HateJudgmentalPeople · 28/08/2021 07:11

@GrumpyTerrier

In my experience big doesnt mean better. Long doesnt mean better. It really is about shape and fit and how it is used. I have known guys with massive ones but they were very "wam bam thank you ma'am". And some of the best I've had were more long and thinner. I really do believe from my own experience that it is what you do not what you have.

As an aside, in Roman times having a massive cock was thought of as undesirable. That's why the statues never do.

I said before, and a PP posted a YouTube video, that the penis only goes in and out thrusting, nothing to do with the size if it’s a wam bam thank you mam, that’s about how fast you fuck.

You are the first person I’ve ever heard say size doesn’t matter and I think you are so wrong! I can’t feel a small one and I have actually asked “is it in yet” when I once went with a man who had a teeny tiny skinny and short one!

HateJudgmentalPeople · 28/08/2021 07:11

Exactly!

Catullus5 · 28/08/2021 07:43

Wouldn't playing around with angles once it's in make any difference?

ScottishZoe · 28/08/2021 09:32

@HateJudgmentalPeople How teeny tiny was your "Is it in yet?"?

I've had a few that I could barely feel but resisted asking "Is it in yet?"

But size definitely matters, even if you think within x-y range it doesn't make much difference. But below X is just too small, and much rarer but above Y will be ouch!

ScottishZoe · 28/08/2021 09:34

I, in person, don't know any woman who believes that size doesn't matter. They all have min acceptable of at least 5" or 6", plus girth!

Though I guess some women may find a 4 incher to be enough, I think below 4" would have to be just small for all women.

Wherearemymarbles · 28/08/2021 13:34

Lesbians seem to do just fine….. 😀

ScottishZoe · 28/08/2021 17:43

@Wherearemymarbles Funnily enough at a Christmas party (where we had hotel rooms to stay the night) a Lesbian was trying to convert a few of us women, highlighting men's diminutive average size (there was a novelty penis toy around 5") as a reason why we should ditch men. And that Lesbians can use decent sized toys with each other instead of relying men who may be average or smaller!

Snoozysnoozy · 28/08/2021 19:53

Lesbian was trying to convert a few of us women

Can people be "converted"? Seems it's pretty offensive any other way

HateJudgmentalPeople · 28/08/2021 22:02

I don’t know why more of us aren’t lesbians because I for one don’t need a cock to come, I actually think I’m not a fan of penetrative sex and I don’t think I’ve ever been, I like sex to last no more than 10 mins but foreplay should last ages obviously, except most men are the opposite, so many men are just shit at sex and for all they love it as well then it’s weird.

Sparkybloke · 29/08/2021 06:13

@HateJudgementalPeople....ahem....men don't need a vagina to cum either...a hand does the job. Sex isn't all about orgasm but IMO the physical connection and closeness as well. Yes, getting off, is important and certainly i find orgasm with my dp so much bigger and more intense than when alone. To say so many men are shit at sex is a bit sweeping and maybe judgemental. It takes two people On the same wavelength to have good sex and it takes time to build up the knowledge of how each responds during lovemaking and sex....maybe it's just that so many of the men you have met are just not On your wavelength or interested in satisfying you? Such men are out there

HateJudgmentalPeople · 29/08/2021 07:30

[quote Sparkybloke]@HateJudgementalPeople....ahem....men don't need a vagina to cum either...a hand does the job. Sex isn't all about orgasm but IMO the physical connection and closeness as well. Yes, getting off, is important and certainly i find orgasm with my dp so much bigger and more intense than when alone. To say so many men are shit at sex is a bit sweeping and maybe judgemental. It takes two people On the same wavelength to have good sex and it takes time to build up the knowledge of how each responds during lovemaking and sex....maybe it's just that so many of the men you have met are just not On your wavelength or interested in satisfying you? Such men are out there[/quote]
I was an escort for years so I’ve been with lots and lots of men (4 figures is my body count) and yes, they are crap! They fingered you like they were trying to demolish you inside and I honestly think women are just better, so many complaints about men and sex and it’s true.

HateJudgmentalPeople · 29/08/2021 07:33

I’ll rephrase what I originally said: men that pay for sex are shit in bed and even when they were trying to please you, they had no clue, some were fantastic but not many! I honestly think they paid for it to get a lesson!

HateJudgmentalPeople · 29/08/2021 07:41

www.readunwritten.com/2019/04/03/21-women-share-why-men-bad-bed/

Frigginintheriggin · 18/09/2021 21:46

Last partner was well blessed. Shame he didn't have much of a clue, no matter how much I showed him and asked him. Selfish tbh.
Its definitely about the whole package (🤣🤣) and not just PIV.
Im at the age now where I won't put up with shit sex.
Have to confess one of the best experiences was with a guy who was very girthy (and gifted in other aspects too)
The man mountain with less than I was expecting was a very generous lover.
Thank fuck we're not all the same 🤣

beingsunny · 20/09/2021 09:24

I had a FWB in my 20s, he was huge!
He was actually really self concious about it, extra careful and more attentive because he was worried about hurting me.

I haven't ever since or before seen anything like it

It was great, but different.

I've never had any issues with a more average sized man but it isn't the same feeling.

ScottishZoe · 20/09/2021 17:08

@beingsunny

But any issues with below average sized men?

Whammyyammy · 27/09/2021 08:33

My OH is vet large, in both length and girth. Length doesn't do it for me and find it uncomfortable and painful if fully penetrated. Girth however makes all the difference

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Rosesareredd · 27/03/2022 09:49

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CuriousD · 29/03/2022 09:57

Do you measure on the top or on the bottom of the shaft when you state the size?
Probably an inch difference at least between the two measurements.

Snoozysnoozy · 29/03/2022 10:29

On the top, from the base to the tip.

Violet869 · 29/03/2022 10:31

@CuriousD

Do you measure on the top or on the bottom of the shaft when you state the size? Probably an inch difference at least between the two measurements.

Groin to tip, anything else is cheating

CuriousD · 29/03/2022 13:01

Ok!

Always nice to find you are a little above average at something.

Violet869 · 29/03/2022 15:09

@HateJudgmentalPeople

I don’t know why more of us aren’t lesbians because I for one don’t need a cock to come, I actually think I’m not a fan of penetrative sex and I don’t think I’ve ever been, I like sex to last no more than 10 mins but foreplay should last ages obviously, except most men are the opposite, so many men are just shit at sex and for all they love it as well then it’s weird.

I know someone who said if she didn’t want children, she would have been a lesbian. I love oral too but I really like penetrative sex with a man.