Does a larger penis make a difference?

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My partner is average size (about 5 inches), I can only orgasm if we have sex in certain positions, on my back and legs up near my shoulders, or where he can penetrate me more deeply, accompanied by clitoral play.
I suppose it would be interesting if I was a bit fuller, whether it would make a difference to my orgasm. I’ve never had sex with a well-endowed man, does it make a difference to those who have?

@Catullus5 - I assume when he is most excited 🙂

The average erect penis is not actually as big as one might imagine....ahcaf.com/average-penis-size/
Anything approaching seven inches or more is actually very unusual. The vast majority are in the 5.5 to 6.5 inch range...methinks there is a little measurements inflation going on

It would appear there is some confusion between metric and imperial mesurements!

Mesurements - measurements.

@starlightlady yes!!! and for the record mine is around 5 and three quarters....and very very average!

So what sizes and shapes of sex toy are most popular? Are women mainly using huge sex toys that would put the world's top pornstars to shame?

Slightly different question, what difference does its hardness or stiffness make?!?

[quote Hyly68]@Catullus5 - I assume when he is most excited 🙂[/quote]
I can just imagine....

Him: Ooh!

Her: Aah!

Him: Mmmmh! That's good

Her: Aah! Yes! Yes! Yes!

Him: OH YES YES YES

Her: Right.. just hold still... just a mo... hang on, tape measure's just slipped down the back.. bother.. what was that.. 6 inches? Nope.. 5.5... actually 4... um, no, more like 3. Drat. Shall we try again?

I must remember to get a small tape measure for my handbag. 😂

Shit StarlightLady don't call it that when you measure! Might cause some ego bruising!

@StarlightLady - I was thinking a 15cm ruler would suffice 😂

@Catullus5 - Well that’s one way to kill the mood 😂
I was thinking more in the way of morning glory 👍🏻

The best sex I ever had was with a guy with a large girthy penis.
The first few times, I felt he was too big and I was a bit scared tbh. Couldn't manage missionary as too uncomfortable but neither of us were disappointed as loads of other preferable options.

In fairness, he was a generous lover and knew exactly what to do and I'm sure if he hadn't been as well endowed it would still have been good.

I miss that sex!

I also agree with others that a large one is soo much more impressive to look at.

So what sizes and shapes of sex toy are most popular? Are women mainly using huge sex toys that would put the world's top pornstars to shame?

@Snoozysnoozy It's hard to mimic the motion of PIV on your own with a toy- also the pelvis of the bloke somewhat meets the clit of the woman in some positions and that's part of what makes it good. It is strange that massive toys used alone don't really seem to hit the spot, but the woman can't thrust the thing themselves easily.

They could slide up and down or forwards and backwards on something, but it's not the same if the thing itself isn't doing any thrusting.

As to size- maybe a massive one is more daunting if the woman herself is using it.

I think one of the 'fucking machines' might be good, with a piston action

I guess some of us all reflect on previous lovers, when we have experienced and incredible lover who knew what they were doing coupled with some serious PIV action. That said we have to remember why we are not with them anymore. It was not the size of their penis. We always think of the amazing sex but this sometimes can cloud out thoughts and bad elements of the relationship. (I often reflect on this tbh)

So true Mouse. The lover I had that comes to mind on threads like this - I cried over him so many times, I hurt myself immensely by staying in that connection for as long as I did. A little more or less on a penis is really irrelevant to our happiness 99% of the time.

Serenity + love + respect @PermanentTemporary that’s all that’s needed & incredible sex will always follow. A man who understands a woman as regards feelings and emotions they will travel an incredible journey of lust and adventure together.

I can just envisage the scenario. “Yes, I might go to bed with you, if you would just like to pop into the measuring room!” 😂

@StarlightLady

I can just envisage the scenario. “Yes, I might go to bed with you, if you would just like to pop into the measuring room!” 😂

That’s funny, “I’m afraid you don’t quite meet my minimum expectations, please be on your way!” (I’m only joking off course )

@StarlightLady

I can just envisage the scenario. “Yes, I might go to bed with you, if you would just like to pop into the measuring room!” 😂

Especially if you've left the pinking shears lying around.

Ouch @starlightlady. A sight of linking shears and i d run!

Linking.....pinking

I think if its a decent size (ie 5'' or more) and the guy knows what hes doing with it then the female will enjoy it and have a good time, if hes got a 8" and uses it like a stabbing device then its gonna be less effective and probably not entice you to wanna sleep with well endowled men in the future.

The wizard and the wand is a good analogy.

Id say im above average but my magic lies within the realms of oral delight, the wizard stick is good as a finishing off tool before you roll over tired and fulfiled lol

Well this thread has taken quite a turn….

Measuring tapes, pinking shears and fucking machines, whatever could be next 😆

To add, for me, I’m more concerned about what they can do with their tongue rather than the length of an appendage.