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Micropenis

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UmbongoUnchained · 04/07/2016 12:54

Had a (interesting?) conversation with my friend this morning. She's been talking to a guy for a few months on whatsapp and seemed really into him. She's met him a few times, been out for drinks thinks he could be the "one".
Apparently last night he confessed that he only has 2 and a half inches down below. She said she tried to be understanding and re assure him but she's woken up this morning suddenly feeling very different and doesn't want to continue seeing him. I understand you can't help how you feel and sex is very important to her.
It just got me wondering if it would put me off, or if it's quite a common thing?
Would it put you off? Have you ever had sex with some one with a small penis and was it really different?
I'm really curious about this Grin

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PortiaCastis · 05/07/2016 00:52

I had a fairly short relationship with a rugby player. He was really muscular and a hunky strong guy, alas when we had sex I couldn't feel him. I was quite surprised as I thought he'd be hung like a horse but he was definitely more a my little pony.

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UmbongoUnchained · 05/07/2016 00:53

I did an advanced search for Micropenis earlier and there was a thread about a woman's husband that really enjoyed the humiliation. It turned him on. Maybe this guy is the same? As he had mentioned about getting it out before and comparing it to other guys Shock

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PortiaCastis · 05/07/2016 01:00

I've just imagined a row of men passing a ruler and someone notating measurements. Hmm time for bed I think. 😎

KittensandKnitting · 05/07/2016 01:08

i think your friend had a lucky escape, and as the story unfolded my opinions did change!

He sounds awful, just awful!

Men are so obbsesed by their penises though maybe it's not that surprising.

MrsHardy1 · 05/07/2016 01:28

I had a ONS with a man who had a micropenis. Didn't have much PIV but the sex was ok. He was very generous in other ways. Turned out he'd had cocaine and had 'coke dick' Shock. It certainly changed my opinion because he was one of the best I've had.

Sounds like she had a lucky escape if he's sending pictures now. Can't imagine sending a sexy picture of myself after being given the brush off. He can't be that insecure!

ThePigeon314 · 05/07/2016 02:16

I'd no idea this was so common...

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 05/07/2016 02:32

A picture??!!?!?!? WTAF!

twittwooery · 05/07/2016 03:01

Isn't the first few inches of a woman's vagina where most of the nerve endings are?

seadragonusgiganticusmaximus · 05/07/2016 05:04

Umbongo when your friend emailed him ending the relationship did she say she had thought "long and hard" before making a decision? Grin

I'll get my coat.

horseygeorgie1 · 05/07/2016 07:44

A picture?!?! Oh no, not what you want!

Ineedmorelemonpledge · 05/07/2016 09:35

Two and a half inches of a penis shaped like doorknob would be satisfying.

Post of the year!

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UmbongoUnchained · 05/07/2016 10:23

Yesterday was one of the weirdest days of my life.

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KittensandKnitting · 05/07/2016 11:24

Do you require therapy?

Sirona · 05/07/2016 11:47

Yep that is called small cock humiliation and is indeed a niche kink.

What is it with men and unsolicited dick pics?? Sorry guys but it's not exactly the most attractive feature of your body.

Wine is cheaper than therapy.. not at this time of the morning of course Wink

KittensandKnitting · 05/07/2016 12:04

God the number of these delightful images I got sent when online dating (lasted a few weeks) it was "hi love you have nice eyes heres a picture of my cock" Pause for a bit/ignore and I'd get

What's wrong with it then or wanna fuck

keep in mind I've NEVER communicated anything at this point, I'm very very glad that my dating days are very far behind me,

And I don't know it's 5pm somewhere and this is a very disturbing subject ;)

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UmbongoUnchained · 05/07/2016 14:44

I'm 20 weeks pregnant so no wine for me!! At least I haven't actually seen it Grin

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BartholinsSister · 05/07/2016 15:08

Looking at some of the Google pictures of micropenises, there must be the possibility for some of those men (esp the really tiny button-mushroom types with no shaft) that they may find themselves with a woman who has a larger clitoris. I guess that might explain how they could be a more considerate lover, if their equipment is more similar. The mind boggles.

VioletVaccine · 05/07/2016 16:44

I had one experience dating a man with a micropenis, many many many years ago.

[TMI alert, I haven't posted in the Sex section of MN forums and don't want to overstep the decency mark whatever that is!]

He had a genuine micropenis, 2.5" long at most, and shaped like a carrot, wide at the base but thin at the end...the thing was, I genuinely don't think he knew it was on the small side, at all.
We couldn't have sex without a constant soundtrack of him saying "tell me how much you want my cock", and "tell me how big my dick feels" Confused

I was 18, and had only had sex with one other man before, but genuinely couldn't feel anything, it actually made me feel insecure and baggy because it just did nothing at all.

I could possibly have dealt with it if he had talents in other areas, but he didn't. I tried to give it a chance, and asked him to tell me what he wants...he said he wanted me to deep throat him BlushConfused

Just...how? From lips to tonsils is about 4 inches as it is, it just wasn't happening.

Obviously I never said anything when it ended and have never told anyone in RL either, but he did go on to marry and have 5 children, so it obviously does do the trick for someone!

ThePigeon314 · 05/07/2016 21:42

is it inherited, like eye colour?!

or is it more like a mutated gene thing.

HooseRice · 05/07/2016 21:55

I read a while back that due to the contraceptive pill and also massive levels of female hormones in food (chicken is particularly bad) and water, small penis size is becoming more common.

I have no evidence or links to support the above, however.

My auntie used a certain fertility drug in the 60s and had 3 daughters in the end. All 3 had problems with their pregnancies including late miscarriage. All 3 have a heart shaped uterus, which is apparently a side effect of the drug their mother took (now banned) .... so the pill causing small penis size in future boy children isn't too far of a stretch.

CaveMum · 06/07/2016 09:45

ThePigeon I think it's a bit of both. When my friend's son was born the first thing the Dr asked was if there was a history of micropenis in either family. There isn't so we can only assume it is a genetic mutation.

Her little boy also had hypoplasia (I think that's the term) which meant his urethra ended halfway along his own is instead of at the end. He's had to have 2 lots of surgery to fix it and has the option of further plastic surgery when he's older if he wants it. They don't know if the two are related or just a coincidence.

ThePigeon314 · 06/07/2016 09:53

Blimey, that's a lot for the mother to take on board. Hadn't thought of it from that perspective.

ThePigeon314 · 06/07/2016 09:54

and obviously, if your child needs a hearing aid or has an autism spectrum disorder, you can chat to other people, but if that were the issue, I think, unless you were planning to totally relocate to a new area, you'd feel that you couldn't talk about it for your child's sake. To avoid putting his private business out there forever in a way that couldn't be retrieved later.

CaveMum · 06/07/2016 18:14

It was very traumatic for her and her husband at the time. He's fine with it because it's all he's ever known but she's so worried about him starting school and beginning to notice that he doesn't look like other boys Sad

bridgetoc · 07/07/2016 08:19

My DH likes to be softly teased about the size of his penis. He doesn't have a micro one though....... "It's so cute and harmless." Stuff like that! Grin

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