Micropenis

[UmbongoUnchained]

Had a (interesting?) conversation with my friend this morning. She's been talking to a guy for a few months on whatsapp and seemed really into him. She's met him a few times, been out for drinks thinks he could be the "one".
Apparently last night he confessed that he only has 2 and a half inches down below. She said she tried to be understanding and re assure him but she's woken up this morning suddenly feeling very different and doesn't want to continue seeing him. I understand you can't help how you feel and sex is very important to her.
It just got me wondering if it would put me off, or if it's quite a common thing?
Would it put you off? Have you ever had sex with some one with a small penis and was it really different?
I'm really curious about this

Maybe he hasn't got a tiny penis at all but is sounding out your friend to see how much integrity she has.

That said, receiving oral from someone who really cares about your enjoyment but is underendowed is far preferable to piv sex with an average penis owner who can't be bothered to take the time to do what makes you orgasm.

That's what I said but she said his face was in the picture. But even so, someone who tests a partner is to someone my friend would want to be with anyway

I know some posters are trying to post a positive spin here but it's almost like hearing that old chestnut about blind people having a heightened hearing sense...

FWIW my DP is hung like a bloody Pringles can with veins but he will still spend hours feasting at the downstairs buffet until I'm completely satisfied. Because he knows that's how I get my rocks off and he aims to please.

I'm not sure I quite believe in this overcompensating theory from my experience of different sizes. You're either a thoughtful and considerate lover or you're not. Regardless of the size of your man business.

The only thing that would matter to me was whether the guy was confident in himself without being arrogant, thoughtful, attentive and openminded.

YY to beards and enjoyable "grazing" though.

FWIW my DP is hung like a bloody Pringles can with veins

Best thing I've read so far this morning...

Pringles can with veins- yuk! I think I'd rather have the micro!

Is the Pringles can the normal size or that regular snack size you can get?

^ I'm guessing snack can

Nope not a snack can, though with my snacking habits when Pringles are in the house.....

I'm sorry but a fleshy pringle can with veins is an image I'm really struggling to stomach

Happend to me. Had no idea until we dtd. Sorry but it was awful, he shagged the duvet more than me. He was lovely in every other way. But it was a deal breaker and I had to end it.

I do think a man can be good in bed even if he doesn't have an effective penis, and I also believe it can be a big mistake to give up on a man that you really like just because things don't go so well sexually to begin with.

I started to fall for my DH before we were physically intimate with each other. He was handsome, kind, laid back, funny, charming and just very nice, but after a while I started to question why he wasn't showing interest in us starting to have sex. At one point I thought he might be gay. When I confronted him he told me that he was very nervous about it because he really liked me, and he didn't want to be a disapointment to me because he felt that he was not good in bed. It was tough for him to even talk about it, but with support we eventually got around to it. It was a bit of a disaster to begin with because the reason he was so shy was because he suffered from really bad premature ejaculation, so bad that he may as well have been impotent! It was difficult at first because my previous BF was so good in bed, but I felt that I already in love with my DH, so I was determined to make it work. I had to teach him how to please me using his hands/toys/mouth, and after a while we managed to improve his stamina so that at least we could have penetrative sex. He is the best husband to me, and a great Dad, and he has always done his best to please me in the bedroom, so I'm glad that we gave each other a chance.

Even if a man is not so good in bed, for whatever reason, if you love each other, there is all sorts of ways to make it work!

That's nice to hear bridge but again it sounds like your DH has an open mind to experiment on these things, which I think makes all the difference.

Ineedmorelemonpledge Your right, he is very open-minded, and he is also naturally very submissive when it comes to sex, which has helped us. My point was more to do with not giving up on a man who is great in every other way just because he can't satisfy you. You can teach him, and things can work if you both try, even if that means something like an open-relationship

There are lots of ways to make a loving relationship work even if you aren't compatable sexually?

Not if sex is a huge part of your relationship.

Well sex is a huge part of my relationship Umbongo, and we have never been totally compatible!

I didn't mean that in a nasty way sorry haha.

I small penis would definitely not satisfy me and I know my friend feels the same.

No need for the apology UmbongoUnchained I didn't take it in a nasty way.

Sex is, and always was very important to me. So my DH was not the ideal partner for me, but I could not help falling in love with him because of his other qualities. We worked to make our sex life as good as it could be. His PE and lack of size was still frustrating for me, but what we had was, and still is fantastic. The sex we have is based around our love, and that us important to us both. I am lucky because he has always been supportive of me, and because he is sexually submissive he does not have a problem with our type of open relationship.

All I'm saying is that it can work.

That's fair enough :) really glad it works for you!

theres more to a relationship than a penis so I think she should meet him and not right him off. Nobody can help their size at all and it dosent mean he should be without a relationship forever.

Yes but Bridgetoc you have another liver don't you?

Does he have a small penis too?

Lover, not liver. Hopefully!