Micropenis

[UmbongoUnchained]

Had a (interesting?) conversation with my friend this morning. She's been talking to a guy for a few months on whatsapp and seemed really into him. She's met him a few times, been out for drinks thinks he could be the "one".
Apparently last night he confessed that he only has 2 and a half inches down below. She said she tried to be understanding and re assure him but she's woken up this morning suddenly feeling very different and doesn't want to continue seeing him. I understand you can't help how you feel and sex is very important to her.
It just got me wondering if it would put me off, or if it's quite a common thing?
Would it put you off? Have you ever had sex with some one with a small penis and was it really different?
I'm really curious about this

My XP had a very small penis. Sex with him was great.

What wasn't great was having to reassure him constantly that yes, I did really enjoy sex with him, and no, I wasn't faking it, and no, I wasn't wishing it was bigger, and no, I wasn't thinking about cheating etc. In the end I got thoroughly fucked off with his insecurity about his little knob that I left him.

He probably thinks I dumped him because his willy was too small and I suppose that is true, but not in the way he thinks.

I have encountered this twice - they were like fingers. They didn't every mention it or draw attention to it and we never spoke about it and I think that's the best way. I had a relationship for a couple of years and it wasn't a big problem. The problem with them was that they were both posessive and quite aggressive. That's just my experience I think they were insecure.

I think he was wrong to mention it and put her in such an awkward position so no I wouldn't carry on seeing him.

What a vile man. I am always suspicious about men who feel sorry for themselves.

One day a long, heartfelt apology for his small dick...the next 'fuck off you whore".

Uh huh. Yep.

I don't know. We are conditioned to think that only PIV is actual sex (as someone up thread said, there's fore okay and there's sex ). So men with this condition (it's an intersex condition, isn't it?) will basically have learnt from puberty that they're not up to scratch. And some women like to prove them right because they have also bought into this. And that's got to be pretty shitty.

Before I judge him I would like to see exactly what the OP and her friend wrote. And what's with that, anyway, co-writing a dumping email. Are you 15?

Because she asked me for advice Jesus! You don't suddenly turn 18 and the automatically know how to deal with situations you've never encountered before.

I'm not sure if it's ok or not to post the message? Could that be considered as outing?

I think if I'd been in his position ' Fuck off you twat' would've tripped off my tongue pretty easily so I won't judge him on that.

I wouldn't post it Umbongo, there's no need to and unfair if he might come across it as too identifying

She's a wee bit hypocritical to judge him for being insecure about the size of his penis... while planning to dump him because of the size of his penis, no? What in the world could have made him so insecure?

Agreed Dame. Hopefully he can find someone who isn't shallow and immature with a friend attached to her hip.

Yeah and maybe she can find some who isn't aggressive and mildly racist. Think she's got the better deal!

Telling someone to fuck off back to China isn't mildly racist I'd say...

I must be shallow too as I think I'd have felt about the same as your friend. If they were together for years and then he was in an accident or something that's different. I would struggle without PIV.

Also, people who don't get the beard love....you're missing out

It's pretty racist considering she's not Chinese, he just assumed because of her appearance. As a Japanese woman, I get it a lot.

Oh fuck off with the "he was hurt and lashing out" he sounds like a right cunt and your friend is well off out of it!

My ex had a tiny dick that was about the length of my forefinger erect. He had no interest in what turned me on at all!

I have been in a relationship with someone with a really really small one, and it was an issue - not the size itself, but he was so insecure and kind of angry about it that it made having sex a real chore as not only was it not particularly satisfying from a physical angle, the whole experience was quite an emotionally charged one (and not in a good way). He quite often couldn't get it up because he was so self conscious about it, and used to get frustrated and upset no matter how much I reassured him that it didn't matter. Wasn't the whole reason for the end if the relationship but it was a big part of it, sex just wasn't appealing in the end as it often ended badly. It was the insecurity associated with having a small penis rather than the physical aspect itself, if that makes any sense at all.

Chinese, he just assumed because of her appearance. As a Japanese woman, I get it a lot.

Sorry, I wasn't clear. It's massively gigantically racist! Wasn't defending him.

Oh sorry

I'm with a woman fastday and thank the lord I no longer have to contend with hairy faces and stubble rashes

Funny I have had totally different experiences compared to other posters with two men with small penises. They were secure, confident and great in the sack. One in particular I have never found anyone to live up to his bedroom skills (thought tmi until I realised it was the sex topic)

It's not just the intercourse thing though is it? For me I like the look and feel of a decent sized knob up close not just what it feels like during intercourse.

But when I hit the day that I lose my libido, I'm sure I won't care about size, so it depends what is important to an individual. And we are all entitled to feel how we feel.

My ex had a below average (about 5 inches?) and there were a few positions we just couldn't do so I could understand the frustration.

Sirona I'm a bit behind with my threading so I don't think you'd enjoy it with me in that case

It's a good point though that it's 90% confidence. I think this guy didn't help by being so apologetic about it.

My ex boyfriend had a very small Penistone and it used to pop out a lot whenever I was on top but other positions were fine

5 inches is OK isn't it?....

But why should she have to settle for that when full sex is what she wants? I wouldn't be happy just having oral for the rest of my life.

But it's not that he doesn't have a big cock. That's fine. AFAIK micro penis would generally mean that PIV wouldn't work at all. It's not shallow to want to be able to do something that's important to you.