Is it out of order for man to try it on with you when....

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you've explicitly asked him not to.

This has happened to me twice now. I've been on several dates with a guy, he asks or hints to come back to my place saying: 'I'll sleep on the sofa'

When I have let him back I make it clear 'No Sex' but after a kiss and cuddle all of a sudden his exposed knob appears.... and he asks: 'Please please touch it...'

This has happened to my twice now, two different men.

Both times I have refused and gone to bed thinking they've spoilt it. I like to get to know someone really well before I sleep with them and know we're in a relationship etc. I don't want quick hand jobs on my sofa and make that clear before they come back. So why do they do it?

Isn't it disrespectful to still try it on when you've been asked not to?

Can anybody think of a legal way that you could mount, say, a picture gallery of "troublesome" men? Obviously you couldn't accuse them of anything. Also, you couldn't stop people uploading innocent blokes to the gallery.

Any legal eagles care to advise?

Grace, absolutely no way could you do that. Both legally and morally, it is a very dodgy idea.

What a pity. I was thinking about the 80/20 rule. In real life, friends warn each other about the 20% who do 80% of the crimes. It'd be so cool to take that principle onto the Web ...

It would immediately be abused (how ironic). Just think, one could put up a picture of your shitty exH. The moderator would be sued in about 3 seconds flat.

TA DA Grace! So why not one for rapists? Or one where there could be a code for rapist?

OMG, Math, that's great! And entertaining