partner is totally preoccupied with sex..what was hot,now is NOT

[Littleblue]

Im in a distance relationship,we have been together over a year.What was a very intense sexlife has reduced in intensity,as it is wont to do in any relationship once over the honeymoon period.
I have major financial worries and my libido has dropped,but his obsession and constant referrals to sex(he doesnt feel loved if im "cold")Im going off him rapidly but we were very close and loving.He asked me the other night if "this was what happened to my other relationships"..!st of these he is referring to,my partner of 10 years dropped me for my best friend,2nd,he turned out to be severely abusive...My new partner had obviously had a train of thought involving my perceived "habit of going off sex" as the cause of my previously violent situation.

wotcha, LB

I thought you'd dropped off the face of MN the planet

glad to hear your update, and hope you are ignoring those pathetic messages

ello you ;)..yes i am,i was just trawling old threads for a cull,thought i'd update..ive a new thread lol...ive a totty issue atm...

you what ?

you are getting some elsewhere ?

do you look like Elle McPherson or summat ?

do you exude pheromones through your pores ??

gah

err, congratulatins, btw

< goes off to find other thread >

LMAO!! nope..im not 'getting some'..but im damn well being threatened with it...my concern is if i flatline :-))

awww, good luck x

Thanks :-) ive a feeling im going to need it x