partner is totally preoccupied with sex..what was hot,now is NOT

[Littleblue]

Im in a distance relationship,we have been together over a year.What was a very intense sexlife has reduced in intensity,as it is wont to do in any relationship once over the honeymoon period.
I have major financial worries and my libido has dropped,but his obsession and constant referrals to sex(he doesnt feel loved if im "cold")Im going off him rapidly but we were very close and loving.He asked me the other night if "this was what happened to my other relationships"..!st of these he is referring to,my partner of 10 years dropped me for my best friend,2nd,he turned out to be severely abusive...My new partner had obviously had a train of thought involving my perceived "habit of going off sex" as the cause of my previously violent situation.

dittany,thats my birthstone..amethyst :D..thank you x

so you gave him a rope to hang himself with ?

and got a nice goodbye shag too ?

nice one

have you really finished with him?

He will be when he reads his emails..i was succint and to the point.
I said this has run its course,best wishes and goodbye.

anyfucker,your a git but i like you :D..

dittany,i will make myself something,at the risk of revealing who i am to mumsnetters i have in rl on fb...im a jeweller )

ahhh, I have arrived...

to be called a git on MN, truly I am there

lb, you make me laugh, but I am not sure I believe a word you say

Could he have an addiction, might need some counselling??

that's a good word...

serendipity

rolls of the tongue

If being called a git constitutes an 'arrivel'anyfucker..i could suggest a hobby..cat me and il link you to one of my classes lmao..as for honesty,up yours..dahling :P
Serendipity?reminds me of an english class back in '85..nope,not me ..as for stones to repel letchy men,il suggest KIDNEY :-)

Ive mentioned addiction to him,he treats sex like he does chocolate (etc)..he gorges.

I'll up your kidney to urethral stone

enough to make any sex-obsessed bloke shrivel immediately

I don't have CAT lb, but I'm glad you take my teasing in good part

oooh,you harpy...pmsl..as for teasing,i gave as good as i got working in a bikers pub yonks ago,bring it on..

I know you do

(still a bit queasy at the thought of a urethral stone..omfg )

are you calling me afuckingdramaqueen..'anyfucker'...pmsl

Can you gift Urethral stones...like diamonds?..am i seeing a gap in the market here??

maybe it's time for a name change ??

afuckingdramaqueen

has a nice ring to it, dontcha think ?

hmmmm..anyfuckersafuckingdramaqueen'...now you come to mention it,yeah,it does :D

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LB Well done. It looks like you did need him to prove himself to be a selfish knobber once and for all, and now he's done so his arse is dumped so good on you.

yeah..it doesnt leave a good taste tbh,but i needed to know i was proper right,so i didnt play,didnt do what he wanted,i did what i needed..he even said "we can just call this the PERIOD weekend'..he was so pissed off we couldnt shag like monkeys as the house was clear..the problem here was not mine.

Hes 'still' sending trembly lip type lurve messages...good gawd,im so much happier,ive stopped drinking,my weights dropping...much better...(just in case anyone thought i'd wimped and stayed with him...