I am such a F*****g muppet :(

[norksinmywaistband]

Please help me through the next hour til best friend arrives.

Those of you who know my story will probably say told you so.

H has just told me he has been shagging someone else.... the same someone I have questioned him abot several times over the ast 9 months

DC are still up I need to be normal, plaese talk and keep me calm

Kids in PJ's on sofa - need to do meds and bed in 10 mins.
They are 3 & 4

Now, because Its crunch time I have just come off the benefits and He was due to officially move back in on 1st dec.

I was even spouting off on another thread today about how things can work again

I think deep down I knew it was too good to be true.
Am trying to hold it together but have tears running down my cheeks

well, they could have worked again

if you both wanted it to

and he mustn't want to

you couldn't do it by yourself

get the kids in bed

pour the wine and wait for your mate

can she stay all evening ?

She will probably stay most of the evening, but seeing as I know how I will be later( this is turning into a habit on his part) I will be around on here once she has gone.

Already on the wine

so sorry, lovey < squeeze >

off to put kids in bed now, If not back on it meand BF has arrived.
Thanks guys

see ya later

So sorry for you norks Don't blame yourself for wanting to keep your family together.

Oh my goodness.
I am new to this as of about 10mins ago.

I'm so sorry. Men can be total arses. I hope the wine works for a little while. Noone deserves to be treated so badly.

Sending kisses and huggles
xXx

It gets better, the cunt didn't use condoms !!!!!!

the dirty bastard

did you specifically ask him that ?

Yes, just texted him on advice of BF

So sorry to read about this, Norky. I am pulling on my special cock-kicking boots as we speak

BOF, make sure you add the the extra-spesh nut-crunchers too

My Dsis is on the way as well now, the witched cavern are gethering, what can we cook up for the sneaky bastard

he sounds like a complete tosspot. You have done everything you could to make it work, his fault, his a idiot and he has thrown it all away. Hope your ok

brill-pad to balls

cheese-grater to cock

No advice but and for you. Whatever you come up with will never be as bad as he deserves.

well getting drunk with people who do care so as good as it gets at the mo

Norks - this is terrible and shocking and crap for you .

BUT and its a big butt honey - I could see it coming, from afar, and I am glad you know now before you give him yet another chance - didn't you do that before, when you went on holiday together? - so that you can rid yourself of this creep altogether in the unwavering knowledge that he is an undeserving twat and you have behaved impeccably throughout.

Honestly, truly, be brave, be strong, lean on your Mumsnet friends - its time to call it a day.

seriously, book a visit to the clap clinic

then see a solicitor to make sure you hit him where it will really hurt...in the pocket

thanks. bibbity, yes that is it full stop, but it hurts like fuck