I am such a F*****g muppet :(

[norksinmywaistband]

Please help me through the next hour til best friend arrives.

Those of you who know my story will probably say told you so.

H has just told me he has been shagging someone else.... the same someone I have questioned him abot several times over the ast 9 months

DC are still up I need to be normal, plaese talk and keep me calm

So sorry.

Life will be better without him, though, it will. In time.

Yes it will. You are well shot of him, the toad

So sorry you have to go through this. He is a fucking muppet. Get yourself to the clinic ASAP.

Ok Girls have now left - they tucked me up in bed, but I am not ready for sleep.

List for tomorrow.

Take dd to school
Pick up Ds prescription
Ring the benefits office
Ring the council tax office
Ring the clap clinic
breathe

Anything I have forgotten ??

Sitting here crying, why did he make me waste so much time?????

The cock-kicking boots?

not followed your story but wanted to say that i am so sorry that you are having to go through this - just before xmas as well

xxx

BOF - may need them, I will let you know when.
Custy - I know and I have turned down 2 invites for Xmas already because he wanted to spend it just the 4 of us at home

From how I see it after an evening with my 2 BF my Dsis and my other Dsis on the phone.

HE IS A CUNT

he knows he was being so and has tried to have his cake and eat it.

Now his guilt has found him out....
I questioned him about this woman a month ago and he swore there was nothing in it that she was just a friend all the time he was shagging her

FFs she was my friend, I used to go there and let off steam about him . I am getting angrier by the minute

Vile human beings, you are worth so much more! Call somebody back for Christmas and sort out a lovely day, do it tomorrow.

My Dsis just rang, she has just got off the from ranting at him.(don't you just love overprotective baby sisters )

He according to her thinks he has done an honerable thing by confessing wtf.

And told her to butt out basically.

He can be so manipulative to his own needs and although I have said it before.... not again

I know how much it sucks.I got left on xmas day after giving it up for him and he buggered off out all day and wouldn't say where or with who.

We should all organise a xmas day meet for singles with kids and fuckwits as exes.

You are better than he is,you're worth amillion of him. He will be back with his tail between his legs when he sees grass isn't greener and then you can tell him to fuck off with the most satisfied smile on your face.

Screw him, solicitors, CSA.Take him to cleaners he deserves nothing better

XXXX

It does fucking suck
Just don't know how much strength I have left

My life just seems so fucking complicated ATM to many balls to juggle without dealing with this

His grandad dies this week - funeral monday
As did my nan - funeral next thurs
My other nan has had a stroke I am one of her carers
DS has had sf and is only just recovering

I am fucking knackered

The one area of my life I thought was finally going ok And BAM he fucks it over again

Sorry for swearing but it is late and necessary

So sorry to hear this norks. He is a knobscab of the highest order

Hang on in there. You have your beautiful children and they are the ones who will see you through all of this. Your family are there for you. Lean on them all you need to.

Stay strong for the little ones.

It will get better. Be kind to yourself.

I'll try. He will not get away with doing this to me again

The darkest hour is just before dawn - and all that!!

Please see this as the lowest point. After this, in the words of Yazz, The only way is up!!

Wish I could actually help Norks - Can I pour you another wine??

No, and you deciding that is the first step towards a life free from this waste of space.

Don't beat yourself up about his mistakes, you need to be strong and save your energy for taking small steps away from being in his thrall.

You have come a long way in one night.

Least now you can start moving on to a much much happier life! You'll look back and wonder why the hell you put up with that shit. You'll be right hun, one step at a time take charge of your life and be strong

Shall we put a cd together TeamEd?

I am sure we can think of a few more uplifting tunes to help Norks on the road to recovery

You will feel drained for afew days. Give it a week and your anger will spur you on. You will go from feeling like you need him to you need him to suffer.

Poor baby with sf mine had when her dad decided to be a cockmonkey and when you eventually get your energy back you'll want to make him suffer more than humanly possible for putting you through it at that time.Its worse when your babies are ill because you'll feel helpless.But you come across as strong and you have a mountain of support

Keep your chin up and screw the bastard.
xx

P.S I hopeyour baby is ok! x

Am currently listening to the song Anyfucker posted when I was in the early stages of this fiasco - A little time , Beautiful south

Oh norks I am sorry.

But not half as sorry as he will be in 5 years time when he is still fucking around like a waste of space and you are HAPPY and SETTLED and his kids don't want to know him.

Stay strong.