I slapped the ow last night and i feel soooo much better!

[ambercat]

thats it really, feel like i have closure now!!

Flummery, utmost respect to you on the basis of that post if not before...I'm enlightened, and I can see that there is sometimes (well probably always) more than one party directly to blame.
I'm sorry you went through that. It sounds appalling.

I can understand why you did it. It may not have been dignified or the ''correct'' thing to do but I can understand. Acting like you don't give a damn would probably get on her goat a lot more though.