I slapped the ow last night and i feel soooo much better!

[ambercat]

thats it really, feel like i have closure now!!

ANd I stand by the fact I'm not aggressive.

YOu just don't want to hear things that don't fit in with the 'yes, she's obviously a horrible whore' story.

Sorry, but most likely NOT TRUE.

OOOOH I could go for a glass. Amber nicely said - now pull up a chair and pour yourself a rose!!

i'm not going round slapping people! i slapped one woman who caused me alot of grief and heartbreak (along with my dh,not blaming only her!), i saw her, i snapped and i slapped her. It made me feel better, it gave me closure. I'm not a perfect person so i'm not sorry and i can't forgive her for what shes done, but i can live with that!

I agree with dittany's comments. If you are still in a rage with OW, I can't see how you have really resolved everything with your DH.

I also can't see from what's been said exactly what the OW is meant to have been doing recently to make a nuisance of herself - she was out in a pub nowhere near where she lives....big deal. If she was hanging around outside your house OP I could understand you being annoyed, but just going to a pub, along with a hundred or so other people Ican't see how that was deliberately designed to wind you up - did she even know you would be there? Or was it a simple coincidence?

I am/was the OW so am clearly from whats been said on this thread a loose moralled diseased ugly old whore who deserves to go out and slapped on a saturday night . I don't believe thats true, and frankly if I did happen to be out in the same place as his wife (and it would honestly be a coincidence if I did because I have no idea what she or any of her friends look like, nor where they go out or when) and she assaulted me in whatever way, I wouldn't hesitate to report her to the police.

She can hate me, if thats easier than hating her husband, and say what she likes about me (ditto), but if she ever laid a finger on me, or my children, I wouldn't just take it & think I deserved it.

I'm off to the pub now with an old friend, i'll do my best not to slap anyone else while i'm out . Will check this later.

lol kerry - yes to a certain extent but someone has to be the peacemaker [symbol with saintly smile and halo round her knees]

LOL Amber. Keep all drinks in glasses mrs!!!

ROFL @ KM

Come on, women. Slapping a tart is exactly what the doctor ordered.

Has no one made the connection? The last thirty years have seen a middle-class obsession with non-violence.

And yet Hey-Ho! People are more violent than ever.

'Tis a natural urge. If a woman shags your husband, I think you can slap her without alerting the media.

Maybe that's because I'm from Somerset.

and umbrellas for any OW !

rofl at drlove8

desi does somerset have a particular problem with ow?, or are you all slap happy down there?( im in scotland, so steriotypicaly violent of course )

Im from London. Nuff said.

I don't care where you're from!

A tart deserves a slap.

, id better watch what im saying! or id get soaked eastenders style lol

lol - I wouldnt dare - I have heard about you scots and your glasgow kisses - I watch taggart ya know

Whooooooo, did this post take off?

Good for you Ambercat, glad you got some closure.

Now as I'm usually a really good post closer, let this be the end of it

Enjoy your drinks ladies, whether they go down your gullet or over someones head.

oh yes pretty, we all drink irn bru and eat haggis ,i think the correct term for a glasgow kiss is to stick the heed in them

Ambercat, it's great that you are working things through with your DH. It's where your energy is best off being spent.

Counselling might be worth considering if you are still angry a year down the line. That's a long time to hold on to anger, and, where I suppose you may have lost most the moral highground on this. I think you'd get more closure from that, and it might help your H to explore these feelings together.

Haribosmummmy I caould have written every word you have said here except I am not that eloquent.

Including the bit about if my husband wanted to go off with someone else I would not fight and scream for him to stay because I only want to be with him because he WANTS to be with me, not because he would be scared at what I might do if he left me.

All that "I'd cut off his bollocks and beat up the whoring bitch" stuff ( To get him to stay??? What the feck??) leaves me in despair at the way some women are