A woman who worked for us as a housekeeper / nanny part time, sent me a message on Facebook messenger. I don’t use it often and found it yesterday. It was sent last November.
it says my husband slept with her in our bed.
then I asked my husband and showed him her messages. He said she approached him but he dismissed her. But then had some emails he said she had written.
one reply from him as follows :-
Hi, I only just found this email….as I was not expecting to hear from you again.
I am happy to have a call with you to talk things over as I do not want you feeling used or upset. I would like to be on good terms with you…I don’t want bad feeling.
I think it is unfair to suggest contacting my name you said you would not cause trouble. To contact my name would just cause huge upset for both our partners and families and helps nobody.
We were nice to each other, but things didn’t work out ….we simply couldn’t arrange to meet at any time, so it effectively fell apart.
You might feel rejected or dismissed…but I didn’t reject or dismiss you - it just wasn’t workable. I did respect you, despite what you think.
what do you make of this? Surely it’s an admission ?? He’s denying anything happened.