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The worst thing anyone has said to you?

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Tiredofbeingalowpriority · 07/09/2026 23:09

Just going through a break up with someone I thought I loved very much but should have been aware it wasn’t going to work - we met just as he was splitting from
a long relationship and in hindsight I should have realised he wasn’t ready for another one. I’ve been crying uncontrollably and it hurts …but remembering some of awful things he said to me - the top two being:

1: on our first holiday in gorgeous Athens after we had been together for two years - I was so excited to be with him until he asked me to take a photo of him and another group of people so he could say to his family he was on a history trip rather than away with me.

2: I have some bad perimenopause and had said that I had quite bad anxiety. He said “don’t put that on me”. What a gent.

anyone got anything better?

OP posts:
selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 15:27

SallyCinnamon38 · 08/09/2026 14:01

"You're meant to keep my stomach full and my balls empty" (shudder)

Also men: "why are women staying single en masse?"

Reading this thread is largely reminding me why I don't spend time with people.

JustinOtherdad · Yesterday 17:01

"I don't care." Was probably the worst. So simple but said everything.

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