The worst thing anyone has said to you?

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Just going through a break up with someone I thought I loved very much but should have been aware it wasn’t going to work - we met just as he was splitting from
a long relationship and in hindsight I should have realised he wasn’t ready for another one. I’ve been crying uncontrollably and it hurts …but remembering some of awful things he said to me - the top two being:

1: on our first holiday in gorgeous Athens after we had been together for two years - I was so excited to be with him until he asked me to take a photo of him and another group of people so he could say to his family he was on a history trip rather than away with me.

2: I have some bad perimenopause and had said that I had quite bad anxiety. He said “don’t put that on me”. What a gent.

anyone got anything better?

I’m so sorry.💐

"Well, you will probably die by suicide or lung cancer" my ex DH

And also

"You're never going to acheive (what I hoped to acheive and had been working towards for years)" Also ex DH

Another man I dated told me my mother was an incredibly beautiful woman.

Glad I binned them off!

Haha - I'm just not quick enough, and anyway she didn't look much different tbh, her manners hadn't improved though.

“None of us know how long we’ve got, do we?”
after receiving news that my child had a life limiting condition.

Wasn’t the worst ever but it stuck with me most.

Sending you a hug. These are awful. I hope you escaped him.

That’s awful, but what prompted her to even say that? Some of the replies on here are horrific but there’s context, this has no context.

People say weird shit when someone dies. They think humour will ‘help’, or they just say ridiculously tactless things.
When my dad died I was 16 and my mum’s friend came round, while we were chatting she said / you’re gonna be poor for a bit now.
Actually we weren’t, as he’d taken out a comprehensive life assurance policy.

Thank you. These remarks were from colleagues . I would have left any man who said this to me .

Shes Just a friend
Your a paranoid c*
All while living a double life and full on affair

I am sure that it isn’t true. What an awful thing to say. He was just clutching at straws to excuse what he had done.

Bloody hell, @AutumnRussett. Where did you work -Arseholes R Us? That's appalling. 😢

That I 'cheapened' sex. Except he called it 'lovemaking' and had a fixation with virginity. 🤮 Plus, he wore pointy shoes and sulked. WTF was I thinking?

Well, I was visiting her at her new house and spend the day with her, having been best friends for 10+ yrs. And then be told “you can bugger of as I’ll be drinking this with my (whoever that was) “other friend”. Seeing that I was living abroad and going out my way to spend a day with her..well…it hurt.

In response to Shall i just leave you alone and you can pretend i never existed?

’yeah I think that would be for the best’.

A very toxic workplace in the late eighties early nineties. Before harassment and bullying laws came in .

"and don't go giving him your sob story, either."

My mum to me. I was raped as a mid-teenager and I was seeing a new guy in my early 20s. We're happily married now and been together 20 years. I barely speak to her now, though civil. She claims she doesn't remember saying it but what the fk would go through a mothers mind to say that to her daughter... It's not like I ever brought it up again after the police took my statement.

We were talking the other day and I told her why I don't need her advice now, she wasn't there for me when I needed it, I certainly don't now. She told me it hurts her and I should stop talking about the past. (I don't talk about it as it's pointless so not sure where she got that from either!) And I couldn't care less if it hurts her to hear it, it hurts me that she said it and still won't let us air it out.
Doesn't stop her going on about how much her dad loved her and how much her mum adored her though...

Omg, that's brutal. Sending love

I have so.many OP. I've had constant comments about my skin colour, my weight, l'm south Asian and a bit a darker than some of my immediate family. I've been insulted by them, strangers, who apparently seem it as cpsmtructivr critism!!

I have young daughter and made it my mission for them not to feel insecure about their looks and weight from anyone.

My ex girlfriend said “ I cheated on you twice while we were together including sleeping with my ex boyfriend “

Plenty from my mother.

When I was dating my first boyfriend: "he's only going out with you because he can't get anyone else".

I was the main social organiser in my friend group: "if you didn't chase after them none of them would bother with you".

"You're no oil painting". Etc

My dad was nearly as bad. Most of his "hilarious" speech at my wedding was stuff like thank you to my husband for taking me on, poor him, it wouldn't be an easy task hahaha.

Quite mild compared to the really horrible comments on this thread but I admit at times I've been jealous of friends whose parents praised them lovingly. But I've tried to do that with my children so they don't feel like I did.

I've asked my parents about it later in life and their reasoning was they didn't want me to be vain (no chance of that!) and I seemed so self assured they thought I needed taking down a peg or two. Gee thanks.

I would have said 'Twat'.

Called a "fat twat" in Liverpool City centre a couple of months ago. I'm a size 12. He looked a bit off his head anyway, and even a couple of young lads looked at him as if he was insane, but if there hadn't have been cctv and people everywhere I'd have knocked him to the floor! Gladly, that's the only insult I've had since moving here a year ago- scousers are golden!

No where near as bad as some of the others I've read here though (I'm 40 and have a thick skin)- I'm absolutely raging for the poor lady in the wheelchair who got spat on 💐

@shhblackbag 💐

Nowhere near as bad as some on here but a guy I was seeing, who treated me awfully said to me, “I don’t think I’ll ever meet ‘the one’” whilst we were out on a date and “my friends don’t like you and think we’re not well suited”.

A couple from men at work:

1. “everyone calls you the chubby Reese Witherspoon” (I was a size 10) and
2. “I didn’t want to admit I knew you, in case it affected me getting the job, as you’re marmite”. He then proceeded to ask me to have a look at his application form. Needless to say, I didn’t…!

Thats awful.

My mum also believed that women were solely responsible for men having affairs.

When my dad finally met someone else and left, she screamed at me in garden that I was "the whore who drove [my] father into the arms of a other woman".