The Dating Thread 62 - They'll be FALLing for you 💖💕💘

[Nosdacariad]

The Rules:
-The first rule about the dating thread is don't talk about it with people you're dating
-Develop a thick skin
-Do not invest emotionally too soon
-It’s all BS until it actually happens
-Trust your gut instinct
-People vanishing, lying & being generally weird is not your fault
-Know your worth
-If it's not fun, stop
-Loo update is mandatory
-No dating the thread
-Treat others as you'd like to be treated
-Any relationship you have that could get ruined by having a conversation about your feelings, standards and/or expectations wasn't really stable enough to begin with
-The things you choose to ignore/ tolerate now are the reasons you will break up in the future
If you're wondering if you're being too picky/should give another chance after the second chance/should try harder - the answer is invariably NO! You're not and you shouldn't. If this, now, is as good as it's going to get, the A game, then do you want what comes next?!
-OLD can get very time consuming. Keep doing other activities you enjoy Optional: Please give your irons (potential dates you are talking to) nicknames like Mr Scottish. Initials are allowed (Mr S) when you are an item*

Message if you feel like it. He may have just been wary of monopolising you x

Yeah it’s the same old tried and tested story. They must get a leaflet 😂

@comingintomyownMr Post and I have had a 'never ending' conversation for over 2 weeks. We seem to read the message and respond straight away. I do read his message on the pull down screen so it doesn't appear read. Then properly read when I have time to reply/a bit of time has gone by

Within 3 weeks of us meeting looking back. That could be any reason I guess - got back in touch and started trying again or she was on holiday! I say got back in touch he probably never left in touch alone. I tend to think there was a split or a general not totally together thing - maybe ENM but without the E! But it’s built with her over the last couple of months.

I know I’m overlaying new knowledge on old stuff and I’ll not dig through each bit with him so I could be wrong on some stuff. I’ll never really know as truth seems to be malleable in his hands.

I’d appreciate the headlines so I understood and so I could tell if my radar was right at time - I’m asking myself why I could so easily let it go too - I’m worried a bit also some of my normal oh that’s it views on stuff he said (not much but a couple of big things) completely failed and I don’t know why.

The most powerful thing would be just to drop him without a word and let him wonder, but is there a part of you that hopes there is a misunderstanding he can set right? xxx

I'm so sorry about the ex xxx

I know - I’m debating silence too - but not from now exactly or he’ll find why and I don’t want it to be so clear and him tgink that’s ok and I’m weird for jumping to conclusions on one post too so he’d not wonder but he smug I’d done his work for him!

Yes - you’re right I’m definitely got a hope in me it’s all a misunderstanding- I know it’s not - I have that insane pick me inside me - hoping that wears off.

I’m probably only as ok as I am too as he’s not even in the country but when he’s back I’ll want it to be ok with us even more - sigh at my stupid brain!

Thanks for this - I think I’ve taken up this thread somewhat today - I’ll get back to normal service soon - sorry all xx

It makes a change from me whingeing about Planes, please keep posting xxx

Ahhh totally understand those feelings x

@Reginablitzing we moved to the new thread. Linky above xxx