Has anyone tried a couples boudoir photoshoot to rekindle intimacy?

[Beachlover1993]

Has anyone done a couples photoshoot, been with my partner a little while now and hes asked about a boudoir style shoot together to spuce things up a bit as lets face it things do settle down after the initial excitement of a new relationship. Im a little bit nervous but also curious

I would love to do something like that but both me and my boyfriend suffer witg body dysmorphia so wouldn't be able to

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You should give a photoshoot a chsnce, may help you both

Would be nice if it did. I remember growing up i wanted to be a photographer doing these sorts of shots to help people woth body dysmorphia feel better about themselves

You really want to put up heavily edited, intimate photos on your bedroom wall???

Why do you assume heavily edited its more about light and shade, at least thats what my photos are about

Ii would not stop him if he wanted a stylist

It may not be advisable to do this if you have BDD. If you are receiving treatment, work on the therapeutic advice and take the prescribed medicine. There isn't a simple answer. Discuss any such plans with your doctor. Good luck 🤞

It smacks of voyeurism to me, he’ll be wanting a threesome next.
I can’t imagine anything less sexy or a turn on.

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Do you want to share a link to the kind of thing you mean?

Exactly why I never went into. How can I stand there trying to make people feel good about their self when i dont feel good about myself. Ive had cbt for it and sadly cbt isnt for me. I now work in care so bit of a difference to what I wanted to do growing up

Realistically if you’re having to “rekindle” a relatively short term relationship, no marriage and no children, why bother??

This kind of thing? Who's a pretty boy then.

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Now you're talking.

It's a shame CBT didn't work. Perhaps go back to the GP, there are things you can do. It's tough, though.

It sounds good for you. If you got it flaunt it.

I think it sounds fun - go for it!

Thank you its really goid to hear someone say something positive as most have not been.
I guess its about being confident and body positive

Thats what its supposed to be some fun alittle bit of pushing our boundries and to loom back and laugh

No. I would rather die.

Oh come off it, surely we all have photos like these that we plaster on the walls and show the neighbours? I like to flick through our intimate coffee table book every morning and evening, it’s especially popular when the door to door salespeople, JW, gas engineers, local canvassing team pop in. We all have a cup of tea (coffee for the friskier ones), and admire the exquisite scenery of the Leicester Travelodge.

Just the thought of suggesting this to my husband is making me laugh.
Imagining him actually doing a photo shoot......I can't breathe😂😂