Has anyone tried a couples boudoir photoshoot to rekindle intimacy?

[Beachlover1993]

Has anyone done a couples photoshoot, been with my partner a little while now and hes asked about a boudoir style shoot together to spuce things up a bit as lets face it things do settle down after the initial excitement of a new relationship. Im a little bit nervous but also curious

I’ll be suggesting this to my DP….😆

I don't understand how it would improve intimacy tbh. Are you both body beautiful as I can't see two middle aged bod types, even in soft focus doing it lol

It all sounds very 80s and cheesy but whatever floats your boat.

Kinky!

Poor Leicester! 😆

I guessing she was a single lady

Their car parks are legendary.
Brilliant thought... 💡
You could both dress as Richard III.
Medieval vibes.

So what's lacking that makes him want to suggest this?

Does he wants some wnak material for when he's away?

If you think he's a good lover and have no issue with his sexual fireworks (Whatever that means) then what are you getting out of it?

I'd read his request as he's bored of you and he wants some nice photos for taking away with him.

If it's genuinely about intimacy then just dedicate a weekend to each other and let your relationship shine by you sharing time, food and love together.

If you need a photo of it then you're doing it wrong.

I wouldn't be able to keep a straight face, it's very 1980's.

It was on a beach in the late evening, a photographer was working in the hotel and offered chance to take some pictures so we agreed and walked down to the beach and found a place there, low light, work realky well

I just don't get it. I'd always be looking at them and thinking: but I don't look like that in real life. And then a bit depressed that it takes lighting, soft focus and lingerie to look good.
Guessing the end result will look something like the covers of mummy- porn books.
Are you going for a theme? Cowboys seem to be in at the minute.

Do you think it's for Brian (or whatever his name is) to show to his mates?

How bloody awful. I love this. It's so bad.

So did you make money from the photographer sharing the images?

The sexual fireworks was another comment not mine, we just think it maybe fun and yeah he may well tske something away ive not got any problem with that

I’d feel like he was saying I needed a makeover to be sexually attractive to him anymore tbh.

Although tbh a photo of my husband trying to look sultry would probably give me the giggles more than the horn. Affected sexy is always stupid looking.

No we paid him, it wasnt that much to be honest

I know he does not think that, went he gets back home hes very affectionate, this is something kinda exciting to lookforward to, maybe push the boundries and gain a bit more body confidence

You do know you don't need a photographer to make yourselves feel loved and cherished?

Thats a really nice comment thank you, he does love and cherish me, were just trying to add some further sparkle the holiday experience really had a positive effect. He doesnt tell me what to do so not controlling or anything like that

We both look after ourselves ok ive got the odd bit i would like toned up but generally im comfortable with my body, he also feels the same

Is this actually ‘boudoir’ or is it closer to soft porn?

The more you describe it, the more it sounds like a scenario where your ‘fella’ arrives in just a tool belt to fix the fridge.

Wouldn’t it be cheaper just to film yourselves having sex?

Sadly I doubt it. She died very suddenly

Thats not the impression i have, im fairly open minded so have no issues with my body as such. Im ok with lingerie so i was thinking of starting off with lingerie and maybe smart cadual for him. There can be change of outfits anyway

I guess it depends on how confident and comfortable you are with your own body

Is he a lot older than you? How long have you been together?

Because honestly it sounds like hes been doing a fair bit of persuading.