Argh! DD caught me with FWB in the house

[Lionesseses]

Long story short, my DD(15) came home unexpectedly from school earlier, and arrived home to find me in the house with my ‘friend’. She knows him vaguely as he’s the dad of a school friend of hers (we’re both single parents, and that’s how we met originally).

She didn’t catch us at it, thank God. But we were both upstairs (we had just had sex, and had got dressed again). I was all easy breezy about it saying ‘Oh, Andy is here! We weren’t expecting you home!’ But I was embarrassed and massively thankful she hadn’t been ten minutes earlier!

Then he left and she was asking why he was here, are we seeing each other etc. She doesn’t know that we’ve had this arrangement for a couple of years now, completely physical, friendly on the rare occasions we see each other otherwise but with no intention of becoming a proper couple.

I don’t want to explain our relationship to her because it’s not really her business and it’s not the kind of concept I’d want her thinking of (especially not in the context of me!). Am I right to do that…?

And I worry it might have spoiled things now cos my DD will tell her mate, and it might lead to embarrassment all round. Argh! Annoying.

Any thoughts? I guess I’m hoping it blows over.

Oh behave. She said she agreed with me on your purient posts and terminology, its true, no derailment there.

Your words were horrible

?? Is this actually for real?

Mess with? What, meet a guy who you trust/know something of, in a safe environment, and click with him.? You are both single. You are discreet.

How is this desperate? Desperate is, eg, getting drunk and wandering the streets bars and night clubs of Manchester because you need sex and love. Desperate is one night stands. Online dating hookups. Behaviour you wouldn't approve of yourself. Endangering behaviour.

Having a relaliable sexual relationship with a known and trusted guy for 2 years and being exclusive is NOT desperate.

Personal attack?!?!
You inferred the OP was a “wank bucket”!
How much more personal can you get?
And I’m not trying to derail the thread, I’m supporting the OP and the decisions she makes with HER personal life.

@Lionesseses ive already commented my thoughts on this but honestly im posting again to say thank you for the entertainment, the absolute batshit comments you've had attempting to shame you on this thread are hilarious (in a if you don't laugh you'll cry type way but still...) I think my favourite is the PP who decided you're in love with himand wrote a detailed description of your life, or it could be the one about the irreparable harm you've done to DD or...honestly so many to choose from! God forbid any woman should ever have sex outside of marriage and procreation 🤦🏼‍♀️

Read her update

and school dads are hot

Ha! Just assumed if it was a sneaky passionate delight it would have been hot heavy and hard to disguise if she'd come back early.

But in that case, everyones had recovery and clean up time you don't have to worry.

If she doesn't ask I'd not say anything. And if she asks any DIY type job you needed a second opinion on he was helping you with.

@SquashedMallow

i have. That’s on the men, not OP. Silly twats.

Cheers. God knows what people will think when I tell them that this evening DD has told me she’s pregnant. Apparently the father is just a friend with benefits. Obviously I’m fine with it. It’s just how we roll, and I only have myself to blame 🤷‍♀️

Well, I wasn’t thinking that the OP should tell her dd all about this guy unprompted. But she was almost caught and her dd either knows or suspects that something is going on. It’s the lying that I don’t like. After 4 years this is a relationship of some kind, after all.

And this is the reason we need to bring the laughing emoji! Is the father at least clean and not on drugs....lmao

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Is it the same guy??

Gang bang 😭😭😭😭😭

Hahaha

Ah well school dad will just have to grab a grannie😄

Sounds like some of you need to get laid 😬

Relax. My basic point was that if the exact same person was coaching or teaching the DD outside the home, checks would be insisted on, but apparently it’s ok to assume everything is fine when the same person enters the home to plow the mum, around about the same time the DD is putting her key in the front door. Just sayin’

I think you sound fabulous. Crack on, I say.

See. Why is this kind of derogatory Insult allowed towards women that don't view sex as something you do with people that aren't your partner ?

I expect people are indeed getting "laid" , but most likely by their DH/boyfriend/partner

OP - I too was shagging a dad (like you both single!) from my daughters school. Admittedly she wasn’t close to his child but it was exciting and thrilling and the best sex ever. We did end up catching feelings though and have been official 2 years almost but.. Absolutely no regrets! Good for you I say. Whatever stance you take, your daughter will get over it 🤷🏽‍♀️ she didn’t exactly catch him balls deep in you, ffs 😆

I've reported you. Your posts are sinister.

Because we aren’t in the 1900’s anymore.
Women are allowed to have and enjoy sex, just because they aren’t in a relationship, they clearly have a connection (pardon the pun).
OP is single so she doesn’t have a boyfriend or husband but that doesn’t mean she can’t have sex. The situation is completely harmless. People need to chill and stop being so judgy.

For the final time.... I did NOT call the op a "wank bucket" . I stated that's how many men view the women engaging with them in casual hook ups. I will not be repeating that anymore.