Quick dating advice!

[pubertyalloveragain]

So he organises (enthusiastically) a third date for tomorrow but doesn't get in touch all week?

What to do?

And his phone has definitely not fallen down the toilet....

Goodness me! A date has been organised. Why does he need to be in touch?!

Pre mobiles that was how dating worked!

I think that’s fine. I think it leaves you stuff to talk about on the date and stops things drying up. I would maybe text before the date to confirm time etc just to make sure he’s still up for it x

Do you have a time and a place? If so presume it’s on and keep your cool. If you don’t have either just make other arrangements. I wouldn’t text him. You don’t need to remind men of your existence

Just go on the date?

I don't understand the problem.

No set time and place that's the thing.

And he was texting like billio up until maybe 5 days ago and then the sudden stop...?

New to all of this again.

Ah.
Then don't go on the date.

Totally agree re pre texting dating!

FFS he chased and chased and now bows out!!!

At that’s not good. Sounds like he’s ghosted you unfortunately.

Personally even if he messaged now I woyldnt go. I wouldn’t want him thinking I was sitting home waiting for him.

Seriously this is just a minefield. First date great, he went away for three weeks to visit family abroad, said he hoped I wouldn't meet anyone while he was away, texted immediately when he got back, had a morning date, so lovely and clearly a load of chemistry, asked to meet me the following day, I couldn't. Organised this and now this... I am tired!!!

Oh well bugger him then.
It's his loss.

He probably just liked the thrill of it. Now you've shown you're keen, he's flaked.

Can you just ask him straight?

This is why I CBA if I was single. Too much like hard work!!

I joined a local "are we dating the same guy" site just for idle entertainment. OMG the pieces of work on there! I'd rather die alone and have my cats eat me lol!

I wish I was bad ass enough that it didn't bother me.

What's CBA?

He's clearly a dick and it's as well you found out sooner rather than later x

couldn't be arsed!! 😃

Can't be arsed.

Definitely it’s a no go if no date details. What you might get is a drunk text at some point. Best to block and move on.

Not worth your time then! I was ghosted before date and it’s horrible feeling however if that hadn’t of happened I wouldn’t have met my wonderful partner. Don’t let this one coward put you off x

It's obvious, he's met and probably laid someone else in the few days and I'm old news now.

still radio silence???

I just want to tell people like that they're rude cowards.