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Quick dating advice!

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pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 19:39

So he organises (enthusiastically) a third date for tomorrow but doesn't get in touch all week?

What to do?

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Italiansocks · 27/06/2024 20:38

Slattern77 · 27/06/2024 20:36

Love it. I rang one’s MUM by finding her in the phone book (also about 20 years ago) and told her what her son had done. She was appalled and told him off. He text me “you phoned my mum?!” 😂😂

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Oh wow, high five

TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:39

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:38

Okay aeroplane mode, see you in a bit 😂

On the edge of my seat here.......

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pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:41

Okay so he's at a gig and just sent me a clip... Thank god for that.

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CockerMum · 27/06/2024 20:41

This happened to me once, then we did go on the date and when I went to the toilet about 2 dozen messages from him came through from throughout the week due to a weird phone glitch. He had been worried I was ignoring him too but we both gave each other the benefit of the doubt for the third date.

Reader, I married him.

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pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:42

I like this thread more than him now!! Women rock!

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TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:42

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:41

Okay so he's at a gig and just sent me a clip... Thank god for that.

<<disappointed it wasn't him wanking into a sock>>

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pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:43

TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:42

<<disappointed it wasn't him wanking into a sock>>

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Hahahahahahaha

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pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:43

Maybe he's normal

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TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:44

Reader, I married him.

I married mine, too, but it was in the Olden Days, when nobody had mobile phones.

TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:45

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:43

Maybe he's normal

But he fucked you over!

The thread has to end with you getting the last word, sister.

Or marrying him of course

Arlanymor · 27/06/2024 20:46

TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:42

<<disappointed it wasn't him wanking into a sock>>

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😂

TedWilson · 27/06/2024 20:46

Did you reply?!

Slattern77 · 27/06/2024 20:48

I mean, that’s not really a reply is it?! I’d be leaving it and waiting for his incredibly planned date details. And blocking and deleting if they don’t appear in the next hour or two

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pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:48

So he's at a bit of a naff gig, I flicked him back a video of my very cool gig last night.

Says he's only free till five.

I'll just leave him with the videos.

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Slattern77 · 27/06/2024 20:49

Naff music taste is a turn off. Say you’ve got last-minute tix for PJ Harvey at Glasto and be done with him

Upinthenightagain · 27/06/2024 20:49

This is not how great love stories start. Move on. Quickly

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pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:50

I think whatever he says next, I'll just say, I'll give it a miss thanks 👍

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TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:50

Says he's only free till five

Hmm. Not getting "soon-to-be-married" vibes here.

TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:51

TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:50

Says he's only free till five

Hmm. Not getting "soon-to-be-married" vibes here.

Or even a bit of enjoyable rough sex.

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pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:52

TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:51

Or even a bit of enjoyable rough sex.

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That was the plan 😂 then I kinda liked him, now I don't, where does that leave me 😂

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TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:52

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:50

I think whatever he says next, I'll just say, I'll give it a miss thanks 👍

Yes, the thumbs up emoji is a definite method of putting someone down.

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pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:53

He's just told me all the gigs he's been to in the last ten days.

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TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:53

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:52

That was the plan 😂 then I kinda liked him, now I don't, where does that leave me 😂

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Wanking.
But not into a sock, luckily.

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pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:54

TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:53

Wanking.
But not into a sock, luckily.

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I don't want to though 🤣

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Itsbaloney · 27/06/2024 20:55

He sounds utter crap. Free till 5pm - NAH fuck that. You are not a priority. Bin him off!!

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