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Quick dating advice!

208 replies

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 19:39

So he organises (enthusiastically) a third date for tomorrow but doesn't get in touch all week?

What to do?

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pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:28

You're legends :)

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Waterboatlass · 27/06/2024 20:28

Hehe I love it!hits just the right note. No bullshit but funny

TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:28

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:24

He actually wanted to come to stay in my house last week... 🤢

Oh grim.
You've dodged a bullet there, girl.
🤣

Slattern77 · 27/06/2024 20:29

I think it’s taking back your power… you could just block and delete, which you may need to afterwards… the key is to find this behaviour a real turn-off. Sadly a lot of guys in apps do it. You need to filter those ones out. The quicker you do, the sooner you’ll land in someone decent. A decent person would have messaged you either way by now x

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:30

YAS! F it!!

Quick dating advice!
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TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:30

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:13

Billio - a hell of a lot

It's "billy-ho".
Grin for the sake of correctness.

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:31

Oh god I just got a video of some sort back. Crap, now I actually have to open it to see it. Thought I could just leave him on read!!

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Slattern77 · 27/06/2024 20:32

Oooh… that was quick! And yes you could

TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:33

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:30

YAS! F it!!

Hey well done!
Awesome.

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:33

He outsmarted me!! Okay so I have to open it dammit, dunno what it is!

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TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:33

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:33

He outsmarted me!! Okay so I have to open it dammit, dunno what it is!

Let's just hope it isn't him wanking.

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:34

I'm too terrified of humiliation to open it!!! Grrrrr

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Italiansocks · 27/06/2024 20:34

Well done OP. I smile thinking back to my pre-smartphone 20s when I rang a ghoster up to tell him he’d hurt my feelings. I still remember how shocked he sounded, and he said sorry. Then he said ‘I would like to see you again’ and I actually said ‘That will suffice, thank you’ and hung up.

TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:34

TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:33

Let's just hope it isn't him wanking.

Or just a lonely dick pic.

Slattern77 · 27/06/2024 20:34

No he hasnt! You called his bluff 1 and you could just leave the video unanswered but watched depending on what it is

Upinthenightagain · 27/06/2024 20:35

I think if you put your aeroplane mode on he won’t be able to see if you’ve opened it.

TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:35

Italiansocks · 27/06/2024 20:34

Well done OP. I smile thinking back to my pre-smartphone 20s when I rang a ghoster up to tell him he’d hurt my feelings. I still remember how shocked he sounded, and he said sorry. Then he said ‘I would like to see you again’ and I actually said ‘That will suffice, thank you’ and hung up.

Yessssssssss!

TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:36

Upinthenightagain · 27/06/2024 20:35

I think if you put your aeroplane mode on he won’t be able to see if you’ve opened it.

We're all so clever on this thread.

Arlanymor · 27/06/2024 20:36

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:34

I'm too terrified of humiliation to open it!!! Grrrrr

Yeah but you ASKED him if he was still up for meeting and then he RESPONDED straight away, so you have to check it! He did what you asked!

Also I want to know what the video is: 50-50 it’s either something nice and a fun or it’s him wanking into a sock.

Slattern77 · 27/06/2024 20:36

Italiansocks · 27/06/2024 20:34

Well done OP. I smile thinking back to my pre-smartphone 20s when I rang a ghoster up to tell him he’d hurt my feelings. I still remember how shocked he sounded, and he said sorry. Then he said ‘I would like to see you again’ and I actually said ‘That will suffice, thank you’ and hung up.

Love it. I rang one’s MUM by finding her in the phone book (also about 20 years ago) and told her what her son had done. She was appalled and told him off. He text me “you phoned my mum?!” 😂😂

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:36

Upinthenightagain · 27/06/2024 20:35

I think if you put your aeroplane mode on he won’t be able to see if you’ve opened it.

Geniuses the lot of you 😘

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pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:37

Arlanymor · 27/06/2024 20:36

Yeah but you ASKED him if he was still up for meeting and then he RESPONDED straight away, so you have to check it! He did what you asked!

Also I want to know what the video is: 50-50 it’s either something nice and a fun or it’s him wanking into a sock.

That's a lot of integrity 😂

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Arlanymor · 27/06/2024 20:37

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:37

That's a lot of integrity 😂

😂

pubertyalloveragain · 27/06/2024 20:38

Okay aeroplane mode, see you in a bit 😂

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TheShellBeach · 27/06/2024 20:38

................or it’s him wanking into a sock.
🤓