Husband has told me he is going to Thailand.

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My husbands older brother turns 50 this year. He is married and hads a new born baby. This afternoon when I got home from work ,my husband has declared that him, his brother, his nephew and two of their cousins are going to Thailand for his 50th. He hasn't mentioned this to me before and we have 4 kids and custody of my niece. Would you find this odd and worrying??

That's his idea of a joke? 🤬

Totally!

He’s a bit of a fool winding you up.

but look on the bright side - it’s a better outcome than him going on a sex predator holiday.

At least he saw sense and changed his mind (joke my arse. He was sussing you out)

100%.

You should have played him at his own game and say you were so upset you've booked a holiday to Ibiza/shagsluf with the girls and it's none refundable. That would wipe the smile off him.

I really hope this man is not the father of daughters.

Omg how ridiculous

Because Thailand is a beautiful holiday destination with great food and culture.. it's not all about sex!

god you really all are jumping to conclusions - racist ones actually. there is more to Thailand than prostitutes, brides and the ladyboys of bloody Bangkok! thanks for all riling OP up when this could be a typical mens holiday without sins or debauchery! Thai food is good and great weather. don't worry so much OP xx

on a sex predator holiday

Unbelievable .

absolutely shameful how much racial generalising there is on this thread. Thailand is a beautiful country of temples, culture, food, nature. these women have watched a few Louis Theroux docs and ran with it.

@misszebra @SnowFrogJelly You are male sex tourists and I claim my £5 (each)

Have you been?

I agree it is a beautiful country. Great people, food and culture. I loved it.

However. no ta to this trip.

I went on a few dates with a man who’s ex was thai. I must’ve shot him a look as he then said he met her here. But he did tell me some interesting things which confirmed what I’d seen there.

Indeed there is. But not for this gang of lads. Read the OP room.

I'm a lady

Indeed there is. But not for this gang of lads. Read the OP room.

I read the OP and really didn't get the impression that her family are sex predators

Now I've heard it all
Wind up

I live in Singapore and I'd say exactly the same of any all-male holiday to Thailand. It is for paid sex. Full-stop. The poster who is virtue signalling about racism is not at all clued up. OP needs to have a serious discussion with her husband.

I am a female. and not a sex tourist

Don't be so naive. She already said her brother in law is a philanderer.

Thailand is a great holiday destination of course but it is also notorious for the sex trade and human trafficking. No one who has ever lived in SE Asia would look upon a bunch of men travelling to Thailand sans wives and gfs as innocent just-there-for-the-culture-and-food tourists. They'd immediately jump to the same conclusion as most on this thread.

<brittle smile>

if the first place your mind jumps to is prostitutes that says more about your desires than anyone elses