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How often do you have sex?

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Lilclover · 28/10/2023 22:41

So we were on a night out recently and one of the girls asked how often everyone’s been having sex with their husbands/partners as her and DH are going through a dry spell. I said DH (41) and I (27) have sex at least once a day bar the first 2/3 days of my period and usually we can go 2/3 times a day on the weekends

everyone was really shocked and said that was an insane amount. They were once a week max most of them. We’ve been married 2 years, together 5 and have a 5 month old baby. We used to be at it anywhere between 1-4 times a day before I was pregnant and even during the pregnancy we had sex right up until 4 hours before my waters broke.

genuinely just curious to know how often couples are having sex as i think I think it’s more than it actually is?

OP posts:
MaggieBsBoat · 31/10/2023 22:06

I think a lot depends on time of session. The quickest we will have sex is 45 mins so there’s no way we could do it time-wise more than once a day. There are just other things to do frankly.
Currently probably only twice a week. But it’s long and good. It works. This is better for me that multiple 10 minute fumbles.

Redruby2020 · 31/10/2023 22:11

ChocolatePeanutButterPie · 29/10/2023 05:38

1 to 3 times a year. We used to have sex up to 6 times a day pre DC. 3 times a day with a 5 months?! I'd be shocked too just because of your DC age. I had no energy with a 5 months old.

I think the 3 times a day was regarding the weekend though, not every day lol.

PlipPlopChoo · 31/10/2023 22:33

7 times a day and his willy is like a baguette. Do I win?

CallieQ · 01/11/2023 01:22

PlipPlopChoo · 31/10/2023 22:33

7 times a day and his willy is like a baguette. Do I win?

😂

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