Unusual bank withdrawals all to girls names

[Toryjane]

My husband does our online banking ,he was away last week and we had an issue with our bank so I logged in. I have found lots of withdrawals ,I know nothing off & they mostly have single girls names beside them ! Does anyone have any idea what they are ,my mind is racing thinking my husband has been cheating .I can’t find anything online ,I’ve posted a few examples but there at least 10 other girls names showing similar withdrawals .he already says I’m paranoid but I have caught him on dating sites ,messaging escorts in the past .I thought this behaviour was behind until I found these .

No idea but Maria is getting the best deal.

How odd that lots are same day. I would have said prostitutes but do they take cards? Declare income I mean i dont know. Very odd.

Cam girls possibly?

Honesty I'd assume cam girls / escorts etc.

No reason to make multiple payments to random girls otherwise when married!

Ask him?

They are either prostitutes or the account has been hacked.

So either he's cheating or you need to contact your bank..

I'm so sorry but that really does not look good, If I wasn't suspicious before I looked at the bank account I certainly would be now. These are payments to a person and not a company and hopefully someone will be along who will have a better idea, but I would say cam girls or possibly only fans.

Have you spoken to him about this ? Does he have an explanation.

he already says I’m paranoid

He wouldn't wouldn't he?

Talk to him but be prepared for bullshit.

Prostitutes. But he'd be a complete idiot to put their names on it...!

One image has a surname by the look of it, I think you should delete that one.

Drugs

Oh OP, I would most definitely say cam girls. That's a lot of money well spent. I would be absolutely FUMING.

Or as another poster said - drugs. That is a lot of money he's spending. If this a joint account?

Cam girls was my thought

Id say cam girls, considering there's so many transfers on the same day. But that's a lot of money to send to a random girl on a camera?? All very strange. Whatever the reason, it isn't going to be a good one or he'd have mentioned spending that kind of money surely!?

Jesus. £1k in a day on a cam girl/escort. What a fucking scumbag. Sorry, OP.

If this was from my bank account, I would be calling the bank to get more details of these payments I don't recognise.

Try some triangulation.

Where were you and where was he on Monday 10th October when Maria got £900 (NINE HUNDRED POUNDS) of your money (Could also have been the weekend before and the transactions only went through on the monday)

Hi OP defo call the bank and say you don't recognise these transfers.

Surely he's not that much of an idiot to spend that much so obviously, I'd be checking for fraud

You lot are awful.
He obviously just has a lot of dd's and it's pocket money day..

I reckon prostitutes would be a bit daft taking card payments.

Looks like camgirls, second from youngest played this game when he went off to uni. DH had to gently point out there is plenty of muck for free online and parents don't need to subsidise that!!!

The thing that surprises me the most here is that you have caught him on dating sites and messaging escorts in the past and are still married to him!

That looks highly suspicious. Maria got £700 IN ONE DAY????

Having said that I agree with the PP who said prostitutes often deal with cash, but maybe a porn site?

Could he be a pay pig??

The high amounts in one day would lead me to believe this is the most likely

Well you better call the bank in case it's a scam either.

Yeah sorry Marian got £900. Surely that figures similar to your rent or mortgage? Who has that kind of money going spare?