Unusual bank withdrawals all to girls names

[Toryjane]

My husband does our online banking ,he was away last week and we had an issue with our bank so I logged in. I have found lots of withdrawals ,I know nothing off & they mostly have single girls names beside them ! Does anyone have any idea what they are ,my mind is racing thinking my husband has been cheating .I can’t find anything online ,I’ve posted a few examples but there at least 10 other girls names showing similar withdrawals .he already says I’m paranoid but I have caught him on dating sites ,messaging escorts in the past .I thought this behaviour was behind until I found these .

Nothing odd about multiple payments the same day. Pay for one act, then she offers to do a bit more for another £100, then another... It could be as simple as removing an item of clothing for a price one at a time.

Cam girls.

But surely he's not daft enough to use the joint account.

Is he on Only Fans?

I’d say cam girls

Could it be fraud, taking small amounts which go under the radar of suspicious activity?

Onlyfans is billed as "onlyfans" I believe.

Unless he usually does all the banking and OP wouldn't usually look unless she needed to check something while he's away....

I assume it may reveal personal details like DH name.

It looks like he's transferring directly to a persons bank account.

Ok, it was the repetitive £100 that made me wonder. I didnt realise cam girls charge that much per act. Every day is a school day.

OP, I really hope you get to the bottom of everything.

I'm sorry. Men are just such idiots.

Aren't a lot of these on the same day? That's a lot of.. erm 'stamina'.

When someone is a pay pig they'll talk to whoever it is they are engaging with, and send them some money.

She'll then be rude and dismissive about the amount, call him some names etc and he'll send more. Then repeat until he's got his jollies from it.

If it's the pay pig thing then the transfers would be happening within a short time frame.
For those who don't know it's basically a financial dominatrix who shames men into sending more and more cash to her during the session. (I use her because the names are female)

Surely a man would just use a man's name?

Def talk to the bank the DH. He might have been hacked. Only because it seems like a fucking stupid thing to do otherwise when you have access to the account.

Some also charge for time. It doesn't look good to be honest 🤢

I’d be assuming prostitutes without concrete evidence that it wasn’t.

The pay pig thing is particularly nasty because part of the enjoyment is a man impoverishing his wife for another woman. If that's your husband OP then think very carefully about your future.

Screams cam girls. Not sure why he would put their actual names though.

I don't think we need to a. Generalise and b. Infantalise all men.

He's a punter & shagger. Not all men are punters & shaggers.

She should have gotten rid of him when she found the previous stuff.

This did make me chuckle.

In all seriousness OP your leopard certainly hasn't changed his spots. Why you stayed after his wayward ways before is your own affair but fucking hell that's a shitload of money to see a strangers chuff.

There is a Daniela on only fans but if you order on only fans is shows as OF or Onlyfans (Google search) unless it cam girls this same girl has an instagram account. However, what’s his behaviour like ? Could it be a Coke habit.
Hope you get to the bottom of this, that’s an awful lot of money.

Assume you googled the full name?

Call the bank to report the payments as fraud with him present and have it on loud speaker.

They will be able to say if fingerprint/pin number etc was used to authenticate the transactions. (This will help to rule out fraud - which is unlikely as a transfer)

Don't jump to conclusions. Once you know if they are legitimate or not wait and see how he handles the situation.

If they are legitimate. He has some serious explaining to do.

I googled the name and the only person who’s coming up is on LinkedIn and looks like a man! Seems to be based in Norwich.

He’d have to be REALLY thick to be using your joint account to pay for cam girls/prostitutes and putting their names beside it 😂