Unusual bank withdrawals all to girls names

[Toryjane]

My husband does our online banking ,he was away last week and we had an issue with our bank so I logged in. I have found lots of withdrawals ,I know nothing off & they mostly have single girls names beside them ! Does anyone have any idea what they are ,my mind is racing thinking my husband has been cheating .I can’t find anything online ,I’ve posted a few examples but there at least 10 other girls names showing similar withdrawals .he already says I’m paranoid but I have caught him on dating sites ,messaging escorts in the past .I thought this behaviour was behind until I found these .

I think it's cam girls. This sort of thing

www.walesonline.co.uk/news/real-life/paypig-woman-jennifer-love-used-25171151

I think he's been hacked why would he do that fril a joint account which you have access to.

You need to ask or call the bank

Well I've just learned what a paypig is...😮

I read a thread ages ago where someone's teen son bought some £300 boots for a cam girl from her Amazon wish list so that she would wear them in a future video.

Firstly, how has this gone unnoticed for so many months? I check my online banking nearly every other day! You need to call the bank immediately and tell them you do not recognise these transactions and ask the bank for further details. If you caught your husband cheating in the past, it's likely he's paying escorts or cam girls or even buying a hell of a lot of drugs. I'd be absolutely disgusted!

Maria, Marian, Mariana

The names are strangely similar... I'd definitely ask him, then call the bank. Is it a joint account?

They are bank transfers not card payments. So either it is fraudulent in which case the bank acciunt has been hacked and he should have noticed these debits by now and reported them OR I suspect it is Cam girls or only fans / escort sites.

What is one, scared to look it up 🤣🤣

Is he being blackmailed? Someone I know was on a webcam with a cam girl and were recorded on a webcam by a scammer and then threatened with the recording for money. They paid as they were embarrassed. The amounts seem so large for 'services' if you know what I mean.

@Iloveringos men who pay for women's lifestyle habits. Like a 'rich daddy'

Do you really think there is an innocent explanation?

To your OH.....I contacted the banks fraud department because someone has been sending money to women they are getting back to me do you need to tell me anything before they do? If he doesn't say anything ask him why he's not done anything about this fraud in however long it's been going on and change the password so he can't

It's a man who gets a thrill out of paying for a woman. Must say doesn't sound like DH 😅

@Iloveringos someone who gets off on financial domination

That’s a lot of money ! I would call the bank if your name is on the account.

doesn’t look good and unless he’s brought home lots of new things he’s been buying then I would say prostitues/cam girls. I assume they draw a bloke in with a first payment then to see more or get more they want more money higher value etc, that’s how they make the money. I’m in the wrong job 😂🫣

It's not really a lot if you're paying cam models to perform certain acts for a fixed fee each time. Which is what this looks like.

It is literally there in blue black and white!!!

You know what it is OP.

@Toryjane what’s the reference you have blanked out ?

If it was innocent surely one of them would be called Dave.

Aren't a lot of these on the same day? That's a lot of.. erm 'stamina'.

Can OP tie down OHs location to any of these times?

I'd just say to him 'Oh no there's a lot of payments I don't recognise, I'm going to contact the bank and report fraud' and watch how quickly he shits himself.

Marian can be a man's name?

The round numbers are very suspicious. It's not like he's paying Ellie at the office £6.49 for an extra value meal at McDonalds that she paid for.

I literally can't think of anything else apart from sex work.

Did you speak to your DH? If he couldn't come up with a watertight explanation, I'd be phoning the bank.