Dating Thread 239 - spring fling

[Thisisworsethananticpated]

I couldn’t think of a decent as it’s been so fractious ! Will post rules shortly

Oh Nelly…this is exciting…please report back to the Mothership

Thank you LuckyLy… he’s on pretty intense therapy this time round. Going to places he’s not tapped into before. He looks a lot calmer but it’s early days…I’m not in a hurry to do anything. I love him 😍

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Aw @PinkIdentity I really hope it all works out for you both 🥰

PinkIdentity

good man ! I love it when men have therapy
it’s so rare !
good luck with exorcising your demons mr ex

Just a quick update from me as heading into work - but seeing Mr music again tonight. Doing a more civilised meal out over my way this time. Will update how it goes

Just a quick update from me as heading into work - but seeing Mr music again tonight. Doing a more civilised meal out over my way this time. Will update how it goes 😁

Slothy…well done on slow dining date…this is how you get to know him better. Best wishes lovely 🥰….report to the mothership awaited

Slothmomma

what date # is this
any dtd plans ?

good luck 🍀

Only second date. No plans to dtd ... yet 😆

sorry that was so blunt !

im finding that the ‘sex positive’ FEELD irons are very keen to accelerate this side of things hence why I asked 😂

Slothy…did you meet him in FEELD? I’m missing out on the gossip 😂😂😂

No, just hinge 😆

Ahhh…I did like Hinge…I thought the guys there are more straight forward and many really looking for relationship. Bumble there are guys looking for fun too and “separated but living together with the wife”…ahem…

Yeah Hinge is the one I use but I find it to be very quiet where I live
Tinder just scared me and I didn't last long on it

@qqq82 hinge is quiet for me too - I'd say only a few profiles come round a day. I barely swipe any. Mr music liked me and sent a message about music - which we are both obsessed with - and we have since discovered we've worked at same place and have mutual friends

PinkIdentity

no its me on FEELD
sex positive they are 🙄😁

ill probably go back to Hinge

Worsy..😈😈😈😈…the day you go back to Hinge you will be totally sure

I'm still talking to the one who happens to work for the same company .
My friend did some detective work and found out who he is
We work in different offices but I'm still not sure how I feel about it
I've worked there 20 years and I've been there , done that , and have a wardrobe full of T-shirts 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

@qqq82 If he’s a single guy and has no girlfriend and is not your superior… if you both like each other a lot…I don’t know…I think you could go for a coffee or a drink and see how you feel??

I think I’ve been on the end of a reversal, messaged a 49 year old last weekend, she got back to me last night, saying I was too old for her ( I’m 53), and she looking for men 45 and younger 🤷🏼.

NoDatingForOldMen

ha! She’ll turn 50 soon and she’s going to have to revisit that rule 😂

No shit…that’s like a lot of guys who only date women under 40 when they are 53… life.
Im sure you will find someone nice too…hang on on there

I reckon she's '49' as much as Kylie Minogue used to be the same age as me but has got younger over the years.

49 my eye!!

Well done on all the dates and positive news.

I'm a sad, bitter old woman just now so I'm not coming on here and bringing it down with my negativity 😳😂

@Definitelycross

I just a curmudgeonly old man