Dating Thread 239 - spring fling

[Thisisworsethananticpated]

I couldn’t think of a decent as it’s been so fractious ! Will post rules shortly

We are a match made in heaven 😂😂

Enjoyed my date again last night with Mr music 😁 teenage snogging in the car after 😆 he's away in week for work but hoping to fit another meet up in at weekend

Oh…if there was good snogging teenager stylee…there's chemistry between you and Mr Music…excellent!! Just enjoy everything and wait to see him soon 😍

Well. If any of you have any doubts that it’s at possible to meet someone on real life - just met a nice man in a local coffee shop. Was with my dog, in gym gear, no make up. He’d been running. One smiley enquiry about the dog - 25 mins later we are going out to dinner next Saturday…😂🤦‍♀️

@Slothmomma I’ve entertained 5 car snogs in my 4.5 years of trying to date and each time I come away thinking ‘.. how old are you again Miss HoneyandSpice…?’ 😂😂

@honeyandspice54 but we wanted a proper goodbye 😉😆 and check you out meeting an actual iron in the wild 👏

Currently in London (form the north) and my goodness there is definitely a higher percentage of good looking men down here. I’ve had loads of likes too so I may stay down here 😂.

Oh my goodness! Wow! That’s amazing. Hope it goes well!

I love a good snog. Missed out big time with stbx as he couldn’t kiss to save his life! I’ve kissed others since and my goodness mmmmmm.

OMG…go @honeyandspice54 …absolutely brilliant stuff…I did not know this stuff happened IRL!! WOW

Lol at ‘in the wild’
🤣🤣🤣

Good woman 👌❤️❤️❤️

Last great snog I had was with a guy I think is married. Didn't know at the time. He was soooooo good

Well I’m still dating. I’ve had a a number of dates with a number of men - 4 or 5 with some of them.
I am trying to carry on. But my heart’s not really in it because there’s one I like. I really like. And I now I feel lost at sea. This was meant to be all grown up - just sensible dating and companionship. How am I supposed to play it cool now? I actually want to hide!

Im having a wee pause

my boundary imposing means silence !

balkan re surfaced and invited me over
NO
not after how much he hurt me

I imposed waiting for sex boundary (maybe too harshly ) with solvent iron
and he’s gone silent too as he’s probably trying to get it from someone else

but I feel good ! Apart from a shitty stressful week and sinus infection

Garysmum

who’s the one you really like ?
id say let the other ones go

and then If it doesn’t work with the one you like start afresh

This is really good…go for the one you really like…ditch the rest. The fact that you really like one is wonderful

Oh my GOD Worsy…Balkan is back… what exactly does he want…just a booty call? Sex? Or reconnect with you? 😳… what the heck happened ?

@PinkIdentity i think you’re right. But I have no idea how much he likes me. We get on really well, fancy each other. He has introduced me to his friends. (They invited me to something too.)

PinkIdentity

ghosters always return hey

I don’t know I’m being fairly terse but civil

I’m assuming he wants a chat and a fuck tbh

He just texted yesterday
on the one hand im pleased as he told me something fairly important and I’m touched he
let me know
but he really hurt me and I don’t want to go back to that anxiety

In the same boat, only one woman was really interesting but she has disappeared now

Garysmum…I’d say introducing you to his friends is a really GOOD indicator he likes you. Don’t worry and give him a try 😉

So….how are you feeling? What are you going to do? 😳

PinkIdentity

nothing
I wish him well but I look back at 2022 and how anxious I was and it actually triggers me
I’ll never get like that again NEVER
I’d rather be single
I’ll continue therapy and maybe go back online some stage ?

if he was the type to talk and communicate
but he’s not and never has been

@Thisisworsethananticpated MrNoEffort made me feel like that
Better off single