First date in ooh 8 years come help me calm my nerves!

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so have a date on sunday afternoon/early evening. (was ment to be next week but he's asked for it to be brought forward) anyhow, it's only drinks in the pub, but i'm really really nervous. We 'met' online, have been talking since nov everyday (text/email/phone). he seems genuine, but now it's coming to it i'm really nervous, I mean what if he's a real edgit/thinks I am?

I know i'm early posting this but am out tomorrow night and won't be able to log on. and everything is feeling real now.

lol. well tbh i'm quite shallow as if no 2 comes up with a good idea for a date on sat - will go out wiht him then why not!(have told him to surprise me - and just tell me how I should dress ie casual/smart/ etc)) then no 1 might well just have to go to the bottom of the list!

any news?

fell out with no 1 - he's def after one thing only - and I'm def not the only one on his 'hit list' so that's a def no now (is also getting a bit more sexual in suggestions)

haven't heard from no 2 yet - but we shall see what goes on there this w/e - i'm all over the place anyhow with moving etc.

no 3 - well hes' a tryer and we all love a tryer! lol - but is starting to remind me of no 1 a bit so will prob not bother too much with him.

onwards and upwards, no 2 could possibly be fun to date/see - but not sure really, going to play that v v cautious as we seem too alike (only thing different is choc - and no one is that perfect I know! lol)

others not bothered about.

(can i say i told you so? lol)

glad you binned him off

i had a v nice coffee date with a v nice man, who wants to see me again tomorrow, but i said not til next week lol

yes but don't gloat! lol. really is a shame cos he really was soooooo sexy. but every conversation began with hey sexy arse - and asked for pics of various things! lol.

no 2 thou - when I was down yesterday emailed and said ((hugs)) it will work out, you're beautiful, followed by 'how are you so beautiful' but really it's quite sweet - at at least no sex talk - apart form about his peircings - (but then he changes topic straight after so am happy wiht that one! lol)

go you on the date! playing it cool/like that is my next thing to learn! lol.

what piercings and then i will clean my teeth

ahem, mine is in my tounge, and his is ahem one in his lip (but has taken it out for work) and the other is ahem - well girls - apparently it's in a rather rude place he thinks it feels nicer??? then the topic changed rather sharpish!

well also i have another date on sunday, so i may as well keep my options open lol

lol. sounds good to me - althou for the mintue I think talking to a few but actually only meeting one is the way forward (any more and i'll confuse myself)

actually, after posting that i just cancelled my sunday date on account of i dont feel he has made enough effort, plus i think he was going t o be a bit dull

lol. what do you say to these people??

i just said i wasnt prepared to meet him considering the lack of contact/effort he has made recently, as it would be wasting both our time

do you think he'll try more/are you that fussy?

lol no he didnt sound too happy, i guess my "good luck" at the end made me sound pretty sure about what i was doing

lou is very tough

right ok I here by bequeth to you giving me lessons in the art of dating (esp playing hard to get ) lol.

oh well, i just had the guy from today tell me he only wanted me for sex, so i just told him to do one as well

lol. where are we finding these men?? do we not look like laydeeeez who deserve a little respect???

wot lou the one i didnt like

well obviously i just look like someone who will take them round a back alley so they can take me up my back alley

they can fuck right off if they have that opinion of me, i'd rather be alone

the nice one?

well he sounds a nob

too right.

i was just talking to him, and something he said made me think , hang on a sec

so i asked him outright and he said yes

nobber