What instantly makes a guy hot?

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a confident {but not cocky) smile and their hand for me and you?

@Kittykat93 even this one ?

This one's gross. Yuk. 😂

Tall, beard, curvy, smells good, thick arms and legs (able to see calf when tensed), rugby player, so basically just described my dp.

Intelligence. Passion. Sexually confident with the skills to back it up. Pleasant personality. A group of friends I actually like.

A man who can talk to people easily, is kind and confident but not cocky. I like a man who can play guitar, that’s hot.
And one that does housework. 🤣

You know when Tom Hardy reads bedtime stories? Yeah, that.

Humility, talking to you...not at you, compassion towards animals, awareness of others needs and wants, come to the rescue when required, not talking about themselves all the time, not a scrooch, emotionally expressive but not OTT.

Having proper workers hands that are always slightly grubby even after scrubbing them, a manc accent, over 6 foot, love handles and wobbly tummy, openly loves animals/kids/his mum/his Nan, pays on the first date, laughter wrinkles round his eyes, smells of washing powder, makes you laugh so hard it hurts your stomach, bit of rough stubble, loves his food, loves a drink

@pumpkinstace yea that too 😂xxx

A big

Heart. But ya know, the other thing helps too.

Dark hair and light eyes, I do like a big nose too. Thick forearms and a bit if a belly.

@70isaLimitNotaTarget

I give you The Rock

Oh go on then

In his films (I think later ones when he'd moved out of wrestling) he's always portrayed as Divorced Great Dad
But he also has good humour and can smoulder (like Jumani)

On paper he's not my type but he's got something
.

He definitely has!

I was completely unaware of the man until I saw Jumanji and then I became obsessed #midlifecrisis 😁

Posh, clever, blue eyes and dark hair. Funny and self deprecating. Loves animals. Muscles but not a gym body. Comfortable in their own skin. Generous sprit. And if they have a big tractor and stable full of horses then my knickers are this way.

I'm single

As an instant, physical thing, I think big hairy men with tattoos who look like they need a wash are quite attractive. But for me to think hot, they have to make me laugh. I like particular accents. I like kindness (not performance kindness, but the sort that is done when they think no one is looking). I like having the confidence to call other men out when they’re doing or saying something shit. I like the confidence to have fun without caring what other people think. I like generosity in all its forms. I like competence without expecting any kind of recognition for it. I like a curiosity and a willingness to try new things.

And those things together are the difference between a passing gaze and a feeling that someone is hot.

[quote notlongtillxmas]@Kittykat93 even this one ? [/quote]

Yeah sorry that doesn't do it for me at all. He's not attractive to me ! I like slim guys with curly dark hair ,not really into muscles much either !

Confidence, sense of humor, openness, attentive & loving, tall, blue eyes, cheeky smile, broad shoulders, toned body, strong arms & legs and manly hands, tattoos & a good smell 😍🥵
... sorry ladies, I've already found him & i'm not sharing 😆

@CosmicUnicorn Me too - I’m a Londoner!

Curly hair, larger nose, nice ankles, nothing thick and cafankled. Medium C to D cup breasts, long legs 5ft 7 to 5 ft 9. Mum tum as standard! Fuller lips, size 7 to 8 feet. GSOH, low maintenance!

@Ladyface ha ha

@username12345T

I like watching a man drive for some reason.

Tall, slim, nice forearms

Lol I thought that was just me. I told my new bf that I found how he reverses a real turn on (he thinks I’m inane but was quite chuffed really). My exH was a freakin awful driver, so there is that too. And yes to a nice forearm. And back of neck.

*insane. Though perhaps inane too

Ability to use power tools is a big one for me. Not glued to phone.

Tall (I'm tall so they need to be taller than me). Hairy chest or evidence of one. Hairy forearms.

@Pumpkinstace

You know when Tom Hardy reads bedtime stories? Yeah, that.

He is so fkg sinister, no matter what he's doing .... I don't get why people fancy him.

@Marineboy67

Curly hair, larger nose, nice ankles, nothing thick and cafankled. Medium C to D cup breasts, long legs 5ft 7 to 5 ft 9. Mum tum as standard! Fuller lips, size 7 to 8 feet. GSOH, low maintenance!