What instantly makes a guy hot?

[BobbiPinsOn]

a confident {but not cocky) smile and their hand for me and you?

@EarringsandLipstick
Oooh I’m out of breath … from my sprint to my local bookstore.

Manners. You can tell in 2 seconds if a guy is polite or not and that's a make or break for me

Those of us who like bald ones are probably old ourselves. I wouldn't have sanctioned it in my 20s and 30s. But grey hair is not sexy, its mostly wiry and a bit crispy looking. I can't bear it. Likewise the just for men look, or the very obvious plugs to go with the Turkish teeth, or that older Italian gentlemen look with a bouffant of a bit too long over the collar pepper and salt hair - all hideous.

Look at Prince William when it was all com-overy he looked beta and foul now he's shaved it it he looks like a bastard with BDE 😂

@QueenPeary

Also, does Porage Oats man have visible willy tip!? I can't see it!

Actually thinking about it now, I may have actually drawn it on myself in an idle moment...

@EarringsandLipstick - Well the physical attraction is something I’d notice first but the first time we got naked and instantly noticing they had a nice size cock, would be hot!

Broad shoulders, nice buns, great smile and sense of humour.

@FuckingFabulous

It's bright blue eyes and dark curly hair for me, but simple gestures can make someone scorching hot in a moment. My husband pours water on himself when he's overheated. It's not done in a posing way, but he's usually been working in our garden, takes his shirt off, comes to get a bottle of water from the fridge, takes his hair down (it's long), swigs the water and pours the remainder over his head so it soaks his hair. He always then runs both hands over his hair, sort of slicking it back and as it's normally sunny, it's all very glistening and glittering and good. Very good.

I also love it when he stretches. I don't know why.

I think we need pics, or, maybe you could film this and put it on YouTube? You know, just to check.

I'm currently watching Money Heist on Netflix, it's a Spanish show called, "house of paper" in Spanish and I'm finding red overalls more attractive by the day.

I've turned the dubbing off and I'm finding anything in Spanish sounds better than English.

Nice natural teeth, lips and drives well

Smells nice; strong forearms; kind; intelligent.

Also, does Porage Oats man have visible willy tip!? I can't see it!

Actually thinking about it now, I may have actually drawn it on myself in an idle moment...blush

PMSL!

For those who doubt the hotness of bald men (those who own it), I give you The Rock. And Vin Diesel.

A wink
Smile
Lots of dark hair and a thick beard
Big hands

Tall, with long hair, long legs and a slim waist in a bashed up old t-shirt and tight jeans. Chews gum. Deep voice. Has large yet elegant hands with slim fingers. Prefers 70s rock but can still enjoy a bit of ABBA without feeling embarrassed, etc.

Being good fathers
Being practical , and having different skills to me
Any handyman !!!

Making me laugh

I give you The Rock

Oh go on then

In his films (I think later ones when he'd moved out of wrestling) he's always portrayed as Divorced Great Dad
But he also has good humour and can smoulder (like Jumani)

On paper he's not my type but he's got something
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Wet shaving
Driving
A beautiful voice
I do like tattoos, and a big chest and shoulders

That casual arms above the head stretch they do so their t shirt rides up and you see their toned stomach. It was ages before I found out they do that on purpose.

Playing a guitar.

Long hair

Tattoos

And I'm putty in their hands.

Some of these replies are funny, the bar for men is so low that simply having wiped your arse makes you ‘hot’ to some women 🥴😂😂😂

Funny because some of these are a complete turn off for me.

I'm massively put off by tattoos, long hair, skinny and my absolute worst... guitar playing

Shudder

I'm with Olenna Tyrell (asoiaf) on this one

"I have taught my Margaery what comely is worth, I hope. Less than a mummer’s fart".

I've been single/celibate by choice for years now, because all the decent men I meet are either already taken or gay, but I can still appreciate a hot dude and feel attracted to men (I have enough sense these days not to act on it though).

Kindness

That's it, really.

My boyfriend at university was tall, skinny, muscular, long dark hair and played bass! Phwoar.

I think some people have taken this thread a bit too literally
It's a light hearted pleasant view of some of the traits we all as individuals find attractive

No one is saying this is how we choose a life partner or the amount of tattoos he has outweighs his personality /values /morales /sense of humour/ reliability and compatibility

Please don't spoil a pleasant thread by telling us all how low our bar is

You really don't have a clue what goes on in some peoples lives so if you have nothing witty cheesy or cringey to add , then please don't

Still giggling at the porridge oats mans bits drawn on a box for the rest of the family to see

I'm really put off by beards and bald men. Good job we are all different eh 😁